Well, this is a story I’ve never seen on Reddit before!
And it’s a good one!
The guy who wrote it explained that he found about something pretty interesting about his girlfriend and he wants her to spill the beans…but is he taking things too far?
Read on to get the details.
AITA for demanding my girlfriend tells me her author’s pen name?
“I’ve (m32) been dating Siobhan (f32) for 6 months now.
He finally figured out what she REALLY does for a living.
She’s always been very vague about what she does for a living (things like writing and working from home writing) but recently, one of her friends mentioned something and I finally dragged it out of her.
She’s an author, she write and self published romance and erotica stories and novels and while not rich, she’s able to make a living out of it.
I googled her name and couldn’t find anything so I confronted her about this.
He wants to know the name!
She said she’s writing under a pen name so I demanded she gives it to me so I know what she does.
She refuses saying she doesn’t want it to be leaked even by accident and no one knows.
I accused her of not trusting me and she still refused which was really annoying.
I tried nicer approach and told her that I want to know her fantasies so I can try it out with her and she told me that what she writes aren’t her fantasies but her readers and she’s still not going to tell me.
He got sneaky about finding out.
At night I tried to check her laptop for her pen name but she changed her password before bed. I was annoyed and told her she clearly doesn’t trust me and it’s not fair because I have a right to know what she writes especially since it’s a sensitive topic and I don’t know her if I don’t know her pen name.
And now she’s pretty mad at him.
She was furious I tried to look on her laptop and told me to go home. Before leaving I told her when she calls to apologize, I expect to get her pen name with the apology. She called me an ******* on my way out.
I thought she’d call by now but she hasn’t. My sister told me I was the ******* and I should apologize but I just don’t see it and need. Second opinion.
Was I the *******?”
Check out how folks reacted on Reddit.
This person said this guy is an ******* and he has no right to this info.
Another individual said this guy is full of red flags.
Another Reddit user made some good points about guys like this.
One individual pointed out that they’ve only been together for six months.
And this person said at least she’s getting good material for her next book.
Bam!
I’m not sure if this is any of his business.
It sounds like she wants to keep this part of her life private!