Ouch..this is harsh…

You can pick your friends, but you certainly can’t pick your family…

And the woman who wrote this story wants to know if she was rude for what she said to her boyfriend.

Did she go too far?

Check out what she had to say…

AITA for telling my boyfriend my family actually cares about me?

“I 19f have a boyfriend 21M who came from a family of addicts and cut off all ties with his mom (dad was never in the picture) and basically only talks to his sister.

Anyways he had wanted me to go out with him on a date but I told him we would have to reschedule because my dad wanted to take me out on that day.

This hit a nerve.

He had got all defensive and said why am I always putting them before him.

He said there has been multiple times where me and him couldn’t do something because I had to do things with another family member.

She didn’t hold back.

He also said it was getting annoying and that he kind of regrets dating someone who was so close with their family to which I replied:

“It’s not my fault I have a family that actually cares about me and didn’t neglect me for drugs”

He got all quiet after that and hung up. I tried calling back multiple times and he’s not answering.

Idk if I should text and apologize or just leave it alone.”

Now let’s see how people reacted to this story.

This reader shared their thoughts.

Another person said she’s an *******.

One individual agreed.

This person didn’t hold back.

And another Reddit user spoke up.

Words hurt.

So you better be careful with what you say!

If you thought that was an interesting story, check out what happened when a family gave their in-laws a free place to stay in exchange for babysitting, but things changed when they don’t hold up their end of the bargain.