Families can be tricky to deal with, especially when everyone seems to be living together!
The path of this family is a little rocky since the pregnant daughter-in-law doesn’t want to help with household chores.
Check it out.
AITA for telling my kinda DIL she isn’t giving birth to Jesus and if she doesn’t clean than she can get out of my home
My son and his girlfriend have been dating since college. The graduated last year and are 22 and 23.
They use to have an apartment together but soon found out she was pregnant.
I was not happy when they informed me. I knew they could not afford it, but they wanted to keep the baby
They also are doing a shotgun wedding soon.
They asked for a huge favor!
Soon after they asked to move into my home. It is a large home with plenty of space.
They wanted to save money for the baby.
I made it clear they will need to do chores and buy their own food. They agreed and are so messy.
I have talked to both of them before and they keep telling me they will do better.
The son is barely around…
My son has been traveling for a job and it became clear that she is the one being a mess.
In short she is slob, she leaves dishes out constantly, her stuff is all over the house, her bathroom is so gross.
She’s lazy.
I have talked to he over and over again, I have talked to my son and he has talked to her.
She is 8 months pregnant and her excuse is she can not clean… well she hasn’t been cleaning since she move in 6 months ago.
I came home with groceries and tripped over her shoes.
I had enough.
The mother wasn’t having it anymore!
I told her that she isn’t giving birth to Jesus and if she doesn’t clean than she can get out of my house.
She started to cry and my son is pissed at me.
She made a point!
I reminded him that I am doing them a huge favor and doubled down on cleaning
Yikes! Living alone with a daughter-in-law while the son is gone can be a mess!
Things must be very rough with this family.
But let’s check out what the Reddit family thinks about this story!
This lady shares her own pregnancy experience.
This person blames the son for not helping out.
This person thinks things will get worse!
This person doesn’t want the grandma to be an unpaid nanny.
This person wants the mother to charge rent from her son.
Why can’t they just separate their territory if it’s a big place?
No one wants to compromise here!
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