It’s really tough when a beloved pet is nearing its life expectancy.

It can be hard to know when to stop treating their health problems and let them go in peace.

This guy and his girlfriend disagree on whether or not the time is now, and he’s wanting opinions on the timing.

Here are all of the details!

AITA for not trying everything to save my cat’s life?

My cat is 14 years old and has had kidney problems for the last 5 years or so for which he eats a special renal food.

Today the vet did an x-ray where they think they saw a mass in his esophagus which would explain his symptoms and why he’s throwing up.

The news is not good.

The vet said we’d need to refer him for a CT scan to confirm the mass was there which would be an extra £1200.

He told me that the surgery to remove it would likely kill him.

I think the better option is palliative care.

But his partner had very different feelings.

My partner thinks I’m being heartless and cold and I should be doing everything I can to save his life.

It’s not a financial thing, he is insured so we’re covered for everything after the first £200 which he’s way over already.

AITA?

Here’s what people are saying.

My dog is 15 and he has a lot of problems, but is still very active and loves life.

Comfort and love — that’s what it’s about.

I wonder if the vet explained this.

I will do this when my senior dog nears his time.

Aw. I hope pup is still doing okay.

Sometimes love means letting go.

As hard as that is for everyone involved.

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