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His Brother And Sister-In-Law Moved In With This Guy, But Were Offended When He Asked Them To Leave Before Their Baby Was Born

Source: Reddit/AITA/pexels/Point And Shoot

Life can get tricky when you’re at a certain point where you want peace but you also have responsibilities towards your loved ones.

This man wanted to live alone but his brother decided to move in with him.

Find out how things got rough when the brother’s wife got pregnant.

AITA for telling my brother he can’t raise his child in my house

I (27M) have had dreams of being a homeowner for as long as I can remember.

I actually started saving for a house since I was 18.

He is grateful to have a place to himself.

I bought a 3/2 house 3 years ago and while it’s not the best house I am beyond blessed to own my own house and homeownership is everything I always hoped it would be.

To be able to come home and have everything exactly where I left it, to be able to play video games all day and have no one tell me otherwise, it feels like I am free and in control of my own life which is all I’ve always ever wanted.

This is where it got rough…

About a year ago my older brother (36M) and his wife (30f) asked to move in with me because while they can afford rent they do not want to pay $2000 a month for an apartment.

While I did not want them here I reluctantly agreed because I can’t tell my own brother that he can’t live with me when I have 2 empty rooms in my house.

I knew he would let me live with him if I had ever asked and I was also fortunate enough to have family to live with while I was saving to buy my house.

They wanted to help him out with the expenses.

I do not charge them any rent or ask for anything, but they give me around $400 a month to help out.

My brother and his wife had been trying to conceive a child for a long time and are finally successful in doing so.

They are expecting in a few months.

While I am extremely happy for them I also do not want them living with me.

I did not buy my house for them, I bought it for me.

He doesn’t want a messy place!

I did not sign up for having my living room filled with baby toys and having my gaming room turned into a kid’s bedroom.

I did not sign up for my fridge being full of milk for a kid that isn’t mine.

This leads to today where I have asked them to move out before the birth of their child.

They were both extremely offended and hurt that I told them this.

Everyone turned against him.

My family also seems to think it is wrong of me to ask them to find their own place when they are expecting a child.

AITA for asking my brother to move out?

He got a place but still doesn’t have it to himself.

Let’s find out what the Reddit community has to say about this one.

This user believes the family is being very unreasonable with this guy.

This person knows the brother could have easily gotten a place for himself.

This user knows this guy has played his part in the support system.

This person thinks logistically and knows the couple has saved enough to get a separate place.

This user asks the most sensible question.

Guess the commenters have picked sides and we are team “leave me alone!”

This guy is being reasonable enough to want the brother to move out.

If you liked that story, read this one about grandparents who set up a college fund for their grandkid because his parents won’t, but then his parents want to use the money to cover sibling’s medical expenses.

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