Nice-looking neighborhoods require maintenance to continue looking nice.
But what happens if a neighbor starts leaving literal junk all over their front yard where everyone can see it?
Neighbors will start to complain, that’s what.
But the woman responsible for it is still not sure who is in the wrong in this situation.
Let’s find out.
AITA for moving into a classier neighborhood and “bringing down the property value”
I am a 25-year-old woman in engineering; I was very lucky to have a full-ride scholarship to school and land a great job when I graduated.
I’ve been living a really frugal life because I’d rather set myself up for the long-term future than blow my money now.
That sounds smart…
My family was never that financially stable so the things I value most are saving and investing for the future.
So I can drive an old truck I fixed up and I ride my bike to a lot of places too.
I’d rather have friends over for drinks and potlucks than go out to eat.
So far, her lifestyle sounds great.
Six months ago, I was able to buy a house.
It’s in a neighborhood just outside of a city in the Midwest, I wanted to be just slightly outside the city because the local taxes are a lot lower.
My house is in a totally residential area with mostly families, apparently, the schools nearby are very good.
It kind of sucks in some ways, it’s not really diverse at all and after having moved there it seems like people look down on anyone who’s too different; there’s not much to do within walking distance, I bike to the city but most people drive.
She is feeling out of place in her own neighborhood.
So here’s the conflict…
A bunch of my neighbors have told me that I’m bringing property values down, and things like that.
I’ll give a couple of examples of stuff people have said and why.
I have an old truck, and I fix it up myself.
Did anyone else picture Bella from Twilight? Just me? Ok.
I’m used to always use parts from a junkyard or online shopping. But then I heard about a guy who wanted a broken down truck, the same make and model and year as mine, towed away.
I said I’d take it for free, because I wanted to be able to use it for parts when something in my truck needs replaced.
It’s saved me a lot of hassle having it right there.
We can already tell that the neighbors have a point.
Just a month ago someone rear-ended me and I was able to use the tailgate, back panel, and taillight assemblies to fix my truck.
I keep the parts truck under a cover when I’m not working on my main truck.
My next-door neighbor said that the neighborhood wanted me to get rid of the eyesore because of property values.
I said I’d keep it covered but I was using it.
Next, I have a lot of friends who ride bikes, or electric scooters, to get around.
When they come over, they lock their bikes and scooters up outside, because they’re in the habit of always locking up.
This bothered the neighbors even more.
Another of my neighbors said that all the bikes locked to the fence make the area look trashy and criminal.
Nobody locks up bikes. Plus, the bikes look “cheap”.
They also have rules in the area about no street parking overnight, and limited street parking in the day, to keep “big parties” out.
We’re apparently bypassing the intent of that rule by biking (I didn’t even know this was a thing, all my friends just happen to rarely drive).
Bypassing the rules also doesn’t help her case.
I don’t know what to say, I feel like they ought to stay in their lane.
I don’t want to start blowing money to keep up with the Joneses, But they seem mad I’m not fitting in.
Not gardening and landscaping, getting a new beamer, etc.
AITA?
It sounds like she needs some self-reflection.
Let’s see what Reddit has to say about this situation.
A commenter shares their thoughts.
This reader mentions a few important points to consider.
Another reader shares their opinion.
Someone shares a great point.
Another commenter chimes in.
Her neighbors have a point…
I’m sure Scrooge McDuck would be proud!
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