Weddings are special moments meant to be shared with loved ones you truly care for, but what would you do if you wanted to invite your friend but not her husband?

Do you have to invite both of them?

This woman wants to invite her friend to her wedding, but after her friend’s husband falsely accused her of something, she doesn’t want to invite him.

Now, she’s wondering if she should invite him anyway.

Read the full story below for all the details.

AITA for uninviting my bestfriend and her husband from my wedding?

I (28F) and my friend “Emily” (29F) met 4 years ago at work.

She was dating “John” (31M) then.

Emily had a pattern of mild cheating (just kisses/flirting), which I never supported. I even urged her to break up if she wasn’t happy.

She eventually stopped, and they married last year.

This woman supported her friend’s relationship with John.

John and I have never been close, but cordial.

The only time we messaged was years ago when I tried to help them reconcile after a fight.

I attended their wedding and congratulated them.

I often took his side in arguments when Emily vented to me.

But John accused her of taking part in Emily’s affairs with other men.

A month ago, John found texts between Emily and another man.

She wasn’t flirting, but still kept talking to him.

John accused me of contacting this guy to get him to deny things, even though I don’t know the guy at all.

This hurt deeply, especially since I hate cheating due to my parents’ divorce.

When they attended a concert, John obviously ignored her.

Recently, I gifted some extra tickets to a concert.

They arrived late, and we decided (me and her) to meet at the end.

When my fiancé and I went to greet them, John turned his back to us, ignoring us.

Emily looked embarrassed.

So, she decided not to invite John to her upcoming wedding.

Now, my wedding is coming up.

I don’t want John there because of the false accusation and his rude behavior.

But he won’t let Emily come alone, which means she’d miss it, too.

Do I invite both to keep the peace, or stick to my boundaries and risk losing my friend on my big day?

How should she handle her wedding guest list? Let’s check out the comments of other people on Reddit to this story.

This user shares their personal thoughts.

This person offers some sensible advice.

She’s not your friend, says this person.

People are saying the same thing.

And finally, here’s a valid point.

Respecting yourself can mean ending a friendship.

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