Big families can be really, REALLY hard to navigate.

And you know that a few folks are gonna get their feelings hurt now and then.

Check out what’s going on with this married couple and see if you think they’re doing anything wrong in regard to how they want to spend their first Mother’s Day with their new baby.

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AITA for not wanting to spend Mother’s Day with my mom or my MIL?

“My wife and I come from a Hispanic household, where apparently every festivity needs to be spent with family.

They’re done dealing with the drama.

For some time, we have changed our ways to see life and we’ve been getting rid of the toxic patterns that lives within the family.

We got married 3 years ago and last September we had our first baby. So that means that this will be my wife’s first official Mother’s Day.

They made a decision.

A few weeks ago, I had this epiphany where we decide to spend that first Mother’s Day just us (me, my wife and our baby).

That idea wasn’t well received from our mothers and like a real Hispanic household, they tried to make us feel guilty about it.

I just think that would be really special that we spend the first Mother’s Day in our new family, just the three of us.

AITA?”

Reddit users shared their thoughts.

This person said he’s NTA.

Another individual agreed.

This person shared their thoughts.

Another reader said he’s NTA.

And this Reddit user weighed in.

This couple is doing what they think is best for them.

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