Good intentions can sometimes be misunderstood.

If you were concerned about someone’s safety, would you speak up even if it offended them?

This woman was born and raised in Cape Town before moving abroad for a new life.

When her future mother-in-law announced a family trip to Cape Town, she warned her about potential dangers in the city.

But her future mother-in-law was anything but grateful for the input.

Check out the full story below for all the details.

AITA for “ruining” a vacation for my future MIL

I (25F) am a mixed individual who was born and raised in South Africa, specifically Cape Town.

My family and I moved to Canada when I was 16.

It was when I was studying here for university that I met my fiancé (24M).

My fiancé’s mom (54F) has always been someone who loves to travel. So I wasn’t surprised when, at our last family dinner, she announced her plans to take the family on vacation again.

This woman was concerned about the destination her fiancé’s mom chose for her next trip.

However, she announced that this year’s family trip would be to Cape Town.

I was immediately concerned for a number of reasons.

As someone who grew up there, I can confirm that the area has high crime rates and can be very dangerous, especially if you are a woman.

I also know she is planning on taking her daughter (17F) with her.

I was shocked when she mentioned that this was her plan.

The mom noticed the shocked look on her face.

She immediately began asking me questions.

What did I think about the vacation? Did I want to come with them? What should she pack?

I was (and still am) very concerned for her safety, as she isn’t exactly a “street-smart” person.

It must have been clear on my face because she asked why I looked so shocked.

When she honestly told her fiancé’s mom her concerns, she was accused of being rude.

I told her outright that if I was her, I would reconsider the destination.

‘While it is gorgeous, it is not a safe place to travel to without prior experience or a close friend to help you. Especially with a teenage girl in your travel party.

Almost immediately, she accused me of being “rude” and “discouraging.” She said that she had been excited about this trip and I was trying to “ruin” it for her.

She even went as far as to imply that my mixed heritage had tainted how I viewed the city.

Now, she feels awful for “ruining” the mom’s excitement.

My fiancé and I left immediately.

He says I did the right thing by trying to keep them safe.

But I still feel awful.

AITA?

She was trying to help, but instead her fiancé’s mom felt hurt. Did she really mess up?

Let’s see how others reacted to this story on Reddit.

You weren’t trying to be mean, says this user.

This person gives their honest opinion.

Here’s a personal thought from someone who has visited the city.

Makes sense, right?

Finally, short and simple.

Sometimes, people only listen to what they want to hear.

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