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Friendships can become complicated when trust is broken.

The following story is about a woman who distanced herself from a group of moms after they spoke badly about her husband and child.

She tried to stay cordial at shared events to avoid drama, but when a mutual friend failed to mention they would be at a gathering, things quickly took a turn.

What would you do if you were in her shoes? Let’s take a closer look!

AITAH for leaving a get together?

I have had a run in with a groupie of moms.

Two of the three of them proceeded to talk badly about my husband and child.

I now refuse to associate with them beyond being cordial at biweekly events.

This woman tried to keep things cordial and respectful.

I have done everything in my power to keep things cordial and respectful to this point.

They told their children to not speak to me.

I do not care what these people think.

She asked a simple question but didn’t get a complete answer.

We have a mutual friend. He has been trying consistently to get us to make friends again.

That friend had a get together Sunday.

I asked him several times who was coming.

He omitted that the group of moms was coming.

She was upset and decided to leave.

When they arrived, I got really upset with said “friend.”

He was not being truthful, so I left the get together.

My husband now thinks I am the AH. He thinks we should have stayed and just let it progress.

AITAH?

Nobody likes being blindsided. OP clearly asked who was coming, but her friend intentionally lied to her.

It makes sense why she decided to leave instead of putting herself back into a toxic situation.

A little honesty from the friend could have prevented all of this tension. Do you agree?

Let’s check out the comments of other people on Reddit to this story.

This user shares their personal thoughts.

Short and simple.

This person is siding with OP.

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