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Shared living arrangements can make personal belongings feel communal long after the original temporary agreement has quietly expired.

One roommate loaned her television to the living room for two years while the other kept a separate TV privately upstairs.

Now she wants her own screen back, but upcoming houseguests make the timing look far more pointed than intended.

Could one conversation prevent the drama?

WIBTA for moving my TV to my room?

I’ve been roommates with a friend of mine for 2 years.

When we moved in, we left my TV in our living room as a temporary fix so we wouldn’t have to pitch in for a new TV when money was already so tight.

The idea was that until we could afford one to share for the common space, we could share mine. My roommate, in the meantime, kept her TV in her room.

Sharing is caring.

Last week I mentioned to an online friend that I was sick and tired of needing to get out of bed and enter a common area every time I wanted to watch anything.

She pitched the idea to just bring it to my room.

Which, honestly, I hadn’t even considered because I didn’t want to be rude, but the idea is now seeming more appealing by the day.

Hmmm…

Now here’s what’s getting me, I just found out my roommate will be having guests in the coming weeks.

Because of the timing, I worry she’ll think I’m moving it just to spite she and her guests. I haven’t even floated the idea to her yet, because I’m afraid she’ll take it the wrong way.

I’m a very anxious gal at heart and just the thought of talking to her about this is giving me the jeebies. Is there a better way to go about this I’m not thinking of? Any extra advice appreciated 🙁

Redditors debated: some say personal space comes first, while others think moving the TV now, right before visitors, is prime passive-aggressive territory. Either way, awkwardness seems inevitable.

This person says NTA.

This person is also completely on OP’s side.

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And this person has a suggestion on what to say.

OP owns the television and reasonably wants it in her bedroom, even though the move happens to coincide with her roommate’s visitors.

A simple advance explanation would clarify the timing and give the roommate an opportunity to arrange another screen for the common area.

There is no need to convene an apartment tribunal over relocating a television that was always supposed to be there temporarily.