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Living with others means putting up with their shortcomings, but what would you do if you had a roommate who was messy, in debt, and expected you to clean up after him?
This woman was generous enough to let her boyfriend’s brother move in temporarily.
But after months of dealing with filth, lies, and complete disrespect, she has had enough.
Her boyfriend couldn’t bring himself to take action, so she decided it was time to step in.
Read the full story below for all the details.
AITA for kicking out my bf’s brother?
I’m kicking my boyfriend’s brother out today.
For context, I (22F) and my boyfriend (24M) have been together for 4 years.
We have lived together for 3.
My boyfriend, let’s call him O, has allowed his brother (26M), let’s call him G, to live with us for the past 3 months.
This woman never liked G.
G has a notorious past of living with multiple people, including his sisters, and eventually being kicked out.
G is unsanitary, unhygienic, and sloppy. Above all that, he is very ungrateful.
These past three months, I had to clean up his mess, cook dinner, and do his laundry.
I can’t even get a thank you.
They went on vacation and left G in charge of the house.
My boyfriend and I went on vacation to Spain last week.
And when we came back home on Saturday, our house was a full-blown mess.
My mom and his aunt came over to check on our pets and the house every other day, and it was messy every time.
My pets didn’t have any food or water.
Her boyfriend talked to G, but nothing changed.
We were livid.
Now here’s the thing. O is very soft and kind in nature.
He tried to have a talk with his brother G about his behavior.
As I had guessed, this talk didn’t yield anything.
We have talked with G over and over. He even has debts up to 20k.
She’s fed up, so she plans on packing his stuff up and locking the front door.
I’m the complete opposite, and I’m fed up, to word it lightly.
I’m planning on packing his stuff this afternoon and locking the front door (because G has a key).
I will then text him, telling him his stuff is packed and ready to go.
He still owes my boyfriend around €500 for rent and consumption. I’m afraid my boyfriend won’t receive his money.
She’s really frustrated and couldn’t take it anymore.
Overall, this is a complicated and very frustrating situation, and I’m at my wits’ end with this guy.
He also has lied about so many things.
He has pretended to leave for work and ends up not going.
He lies about his debts.
So, she’s wondering if what she’s planning to do is right.
My boyfriend works shifts.
And 2 days ago, his brother brought in a girl to our home without telling us.
So, AITA for kicking his brother out because my boyfriend doesn’t dare?
She might want to give her boyfriend a heads up first.
Let’s read the reactions of other people on Reddit to this story.
This user shares their personal thoughts.
This person makes a valid point.
Here’s some useful advice from this person.
He did this to himself, says this person.
Finally, short and simple.
Sometimes, doing the right thing means doing what others won’t.
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