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Some rules are outdated for a reason, and digging them up rarely ends well.
When a quiet California homeowner was forced into a legal fight over a harmless house addition by a neighbor with too much time and influence, tensions exploded across the block.
In the end, one forgotten clause in the HOA handbook flipped the entire power struggle on its head.
Keep reading for the full story!
HOA rules
This happened in the late ’90s to a good buddy of mine.
He lived in the Bay Area, California, in an old subdivision built mostly between the 1900s and 1930s.
The HOA was super relaxed and mostly unenforced unless there was a major issue, mainly existing to upkeep neighborhood gardens.
JD was building an addition onto his house.
He did his due diligence and seemed to have the blessing from just about everyone.
He asked all the surrounding neighbors if it would be an issue, and everyone said it was fine. Several neighbors had done similar additions.
The folks behind them—Lori—also said it was cool. By the time the addition was about 90% complete, things changed.
Lori was friends with Maria, who lived five or six houses away.
Maria soon started causing trouble.
Maria planted the idea in Lori’s head that the addition was a big problem.
Maria dug through HOA documents and found a clause from 1912 stating the addition was three feet over the limit. JD tried to argue that the rules were outdated and pointed out at least a dozen examples where others had violated them, but it didn’t matter.
JD received a cease-building notice and was told to tear the addition down.
When JD took things to court, things got even uglier.
What followed was a 10-month legal battle that ruined relationships between neighbors, parents, and kids. It became a massive headache over something incredibly minor.
Lori began avoiding JD and his family.
Maria, meanwhile, became smug and loud, speaking at every HOA meeting and taking the lead in pushing the issue.
She would even yell at JD and his wife whenever she saw them.
It all culminated in a big HOA meeting where everyone pleaded their case.
Eventually, JD got word that a final decision was coming. A packed HOA meeting was held with all parties involved.
Maria passionately argued that the addition ALIGN needed to be torn down.
That’s when JD decided to throw everyone a curveball.
When it was JD’s turn, he stood up and said he would accept the ruling—if they were truly going to enforce the letter of the law.
He then asked everyone to turn to page 127, section 1, and read aloud a clause stating that no minorities were allowed to live, rent, or stay in the neighborhood.
He proceeded to list nearly every minority group.
Maria, who is Hispanic, went pale.
Satisfied with his performance, he watched as everyone cowered.
JD ended with, “Are we done with this?”
They were.
And the rest was pretty much history!
The HOA dropped the case, and JD finished the addition. The neighbors, however, never repaired their relationships.
Maria moved away shortly afterward. JD and his family eventually moved as well.
It never needed to happen.
All this drama — and for what?
Redditors are sure to get a kick out of this one.
If you’re going to enforce one rule, you need to understand all the rules.
HOAs really need a voice of reason, and often, it’s people who understand the law better than they do.
Sometimes the only way to defeat an HOA is to infiltrate it.
By insisting on the letter of the law, the HOA accidentally reminded everyone why those laws were buried in the first place!
And suddenly nobody was in the mood to play HOA hardball anymore.
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