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Getting involved in relationships can sometimes backfire.
In this story, a woman tried to help her best friend Abby, who was thinking of breaking up with her boyfriend Bob.
She messaged Bob to pay more attention to her and even suggested buying flowers as a surprise.
But when Abby found out, both of them ended up blaming her for interfering.
Yikes! It sounds like it did more harm than good, huh? Check out the full details below.
AITA: I tried to recover the relationship between 2 best friends
I will call the girl Abby and the boy Bob.
Abby and Bob are my best friends. We became close after we got into the same college.
They have been a couple for one year.
Recently, Abby told me she wanted to break up with him. She felt Bob had already gotten bored with her and that he had no patience anymore.
This woman told Bob to buy Abby a surprise gift.
I sent a message to Bob. I reminded him to pay more attention to Abby. I kindly asked him to get Abby a surprise gift.
Bob had just won a little money on bcgame, so I jokingly told him he had no excuse now. I told him to go buy Abby some flowers.
Now, both of them are blaming her.
The day after, Abby came to tell me she checked Bob’s phone last night.
She questioned me about why I dropped a subtle hint to Bob. She said it means nothing if Bob does it not from his heart.
Bob also blamed me. He asked why I did not tell him everything. He said that he could have managed it better.
Uh oh, this is one of those situations where trying to help just makes things messier.
Even though OP’s intentions were good, she was easily misunderstood by both sides.
I think that it’s probably better to offer support without directly getting involved next time.
Let’s see how others reacted to this story on Reddit.
Short and simple.
Here’s a similar thought.
It’s not your business, says this person.
People are saying the same thing about OP.
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Finally, another honest opinion.
Playing relationship coach can quickly turn into being the referee no one asked for.