Having a newborn baby comes with regular crying in the middle of the night.

The following story is about a woman who had just moved into a new apartment and had a baby.

She realized that their bedroom shared a wall with the neighbor’s bedroom.

Now, when the baby cries at night or early in the morning, she feels bad because she knows it disturbs the people living next door.

Uh oh! That sounds like a problem indeed. Let’s take a closer look!

I’m the bad neighbor

My husband and I recently had a baby, and I feel so bad for my next-door neighbor.

We were living in an apartment where the bedrooms were on opposite sides of the floor plan.

But we had to move from those due to moving cities so that we could be closer to family after having our beautiful daughter.

We got an apartment where the floor plans mirror each other, meaning the bedrooms share the same wall.

This woman’s baby regularly cries before bedtime and in the early morning.

When we first toured them, I didn’t even think about it until the first night we stayed.

I heard our neighbor talking on the phone through the walls.

Now, every time my 2-month-old baby cries, usually at 11:00 pm before bedtime, I feel horrible about it.

I try my best to soothe her. The crying can go on 30 minutes, and sometimes, it gets horrible.

She also cries around 4 am to eat, but not bad and is easily soothed.

She knows she’s being a bad neighbor to people around her.

During the day, she doesn’t cry much.

And we are hardly ever in the room.

I guess I’d just like to see how you all would feel if I was your neighbor?

It is understandable that OP feels bad.

But hey, at least she’s aware of their living situation and the possible inconvenience it brings to her neighbors, right?

Her neighbors, on the other hand, should understand that crying is a normal part of having a newborn.

She is already trying to soothe her daughter, and some noise is simply unavoidable when apartments share walls.

Let’s check out the comments of other people on this story.

This user shares their personal thoughts.

This person understands very well.

It’s okay for babies to cry, says this one.

People are so kind in the comments.

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Finally, here’s a valid point.

The tiniest roommate often brings the biggest noise.