January 20, 2025 at 12:49 am

His Cat Got Out During His Roommate’s Party, And He’s Blaming Him For The Great Escape

by Ashley Ashbee

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It’s unnerving when your pet gets loose.

That said, is it the pet owner’s fault or someone else’s if they go on the lam?

These two roommates disagree on the particulars of a kitty caper.

Check it out.

AITA for blaming my housemate for letting my cat escape?

My housemate had a small party last night and my cat got out.

I was not home at the time.

He claims it was one of his friends that left the door open and that he shouldn’t be responsible for watching the cat because his priority is his friends.

This is not the first time this has happened.

This is the 3rd time the cat has gotten out because of him, with the most recent time being exactly a month ago.

He refuses to take accountability and says that since I know my cat likes to escape I should just lock him in my room.

My other two housemates have had parties and have never let the cat escape.

At least there is a happy ending.

The cat is back and safe.

He knows his way home bc he’s an indoor/outdoor cat but I never let him out at night.

Am i wrong to blame my housemate?

Here is what folks are saying.

That’s terrible!

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It’s an odd arrangement.

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This is fair. The poor cat.

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It’s weird that people don’t get this.

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As simple as that!

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I feel sorry for the cat.

Some people aren’t worthy.

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Ashley Ashbee | Contributing Writer, Workplace & Culture

Ashley Ashbee is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter specializing in workplace dynamics, employee advocacy, and professional culture. Drawing on her real-world experience as a software consultant, she brings a unique, insider perspective to navigating office conflicts, toxic management, and trending professional dilemmas.

Holding a degree in Professional Writing from York University, Ashley combines her formal editorial training with her corporate background to deliver highly engaging, empathetic narratives. She excels at breaking down complex workplace dramas and translating them into stories that truly empower and validate modern workers.

Based in St. Catharines, Ontario, Ashley balances her time between the tech and publishing worlds with her love for the outdoors. When she isn’t consulting or writing, she can usually be found exploring local walking trails or experimenting with new recipes in the kitchen.

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