May 8, 2025 at 12:49 am

His Girlfriend Spent The Night At A Male Co-Worker’s House, So He Told Her He Doesn’t Want Her To See Him Again

by Matthew Gilligan

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This sounds pretty fishy, folks…

How would you react if your significant other spent the night at someone’s house who you didn’t exactly trust?

You’d probably put an end to it, right?

That’s what this guy did, and now he wants to know if he handled this situation the wrong way.

Check out what he had to say.

AITA for yelling at my girlfriend after she slept over at her coworker’s place and telling her not to see him again?

“I’ve been with my girlfriend a little over 2 years.

She went to a birthday party for one of her coworkers last weekend – I was actually invited too, but I didn’t really feel like going. Long week, not in the mood to get wasted with strangers.

She said no problem, she’ll go alone. Cool.

That’s odd…

She leaves around 7, texts me a couple times early in the night, and then nothing.

I text her around midnight just to check in – no reply.

Whole night goes by, I wake up, still nothing.

Around 10:30am she finally messages me with “Hey, sorry, I crashed at Jake’s, my phone died.”

Jake is her coworker. She’s talked about him before – always as this harmless guy who’s “like a brother” or whatever.

He wasn’t happy about it.

I lost it.

I called her and yelled, asked what the hell she was thinking. She didn’t even tell me she might not come home. Just disappeared and then shows up the next morning like it’s no big deal?

She said they were drinking, she was tired, and it was just easier to stay there. That “nothing happened” and I’m overreacting.

I told her I don’t care – I don’t want her seeing this dude anymore. I don’t trust it, I don’t like it, and if the roles were reversed, she’d lose her mind.

Now she’s acting like I’m the problem.

AITA?”

His girlfriend really messed up here. She should’ve gotten a ride home or at least called him to let him know her plans.

Reddit users shared their thoughts.

This person spoke up.

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Another individual didn’t hold back.

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This Reddit user chimed in.

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Another person said he’s NTA.

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And this individual shared their thoughts.

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You can’t blame him for not being cool with this situation.

If you liked that post, check out this story about a guy who was forced to sleep on the couch at his wife’s family’s house, so he went to a hotel instead.