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Being injured doesn’t exempt you from family drama, apparently, no matter how obvious the scheduling conflict might be.

One woman, currently on crutches after breaking her foot days earlier, found herself fielding an urgent demand from her older sister to rush home and supervise their younger siblings while their grandparents were both unexpectedly unavailable.

The catch was she had no vehicle, no ride home until later that afternoon, and significant mobility limitations that made an early arrival nearly impossible.

Even after proposing a reasonable alternative, her sister dismissed the suggestion and hung up mid-call.

You’ll want to keep reading for this one.

AITA for not wanting to babysit my siblings?

I (F21) have four siblings, older sister (23), brothers (18) & (13), and youngest sister (12).

Our mother has passed away, and it is just our grandparents looking after us.

This woman has been going through a lot recently.

I had broken my foot on Monday, and of course I am still recovering.

On Wednesday I had left to stay over and hang out at my partner’s place for three days. I had let my grandpa know that I will be gone till Friday before I had left.

Our grandma is currently not home either, since she had something job related in another state and won’t be home until Sunday.

That’s when her sibling piled on even more stress.

I had gotten a call today on Thursday (a day before I’m due back).

My older sister had called me saying I have to return on Friday before 12PM to look after the kids so she could go to a job induction, and that our grandpa was called into work, so no one was there to look after them.

But this wasn’t going to work — for several reasons.

Now here’s the problem: I am on crutches and sometimes wheelchair bound when I need to go long distances. I do not have a car, and normally my partner would drive me home on Friday after he comes back from uni after 3PM.

So she let her sister know, but she didn’t take it well.

I told her I can’t return home that easily, and I shouldn’t have to babysit them considering how old they are currently. I did ask her when she’d be back, and she told me before 3PM, which then I thought, oh perfect, so then our brother (18) can just look after them for 2-3 hours, and our grandpa gets off work at 4:30PM anyways as well.

My older sister did not like that and said that they won’t last for that long and need an adult just in case.

The woman stays strong, which only made her sibling madder.

I said no, because how am I going to get home before then, and what am I going to do in case there was an emergency or an intruder?

She hung up on me after that.

So AITA?

Sounds like her sibling doesn’t know how to take “no” for an answer.

What did Reddit have to say?

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This user questions whether a babysitter is even needed in this instance.

Surely the oldest teen could look after the rest for a short amount of time?

This user raises a similar question.

This user thinks they know what this is really about.

At the end of the day, she gave her sister a totally workable solution, an adult sibling already available in the house, and somehow that still got vetoed in favor of petty guilt-tripping.

The real failure here was the sister’s unwillingness to think on her feet when presented with a challenge.

Sometimes the missing piece in a crisis isn’t childcare; it’s basic problem-solving.

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Benjamin Cottrell

Benjamin Cottrell | Assistant Editor, Internet Culture

Benjamin Cottrell is an Assistant Editor and contributing writer at TwistedSifter, specializing in internet culture, viral social dynamics, and the moral complexities of online communities. He brings a highly analytical, editorial voice to his reporting on workplace conflicts, malicious compliance, and interpersonal drama, with a specific focus on nuanced stories that lack an obvious villain.

As a published author of rhetorical criticism, Benjamin leverages his academic background in human communication to dissect and elevate viral social media threads. Instead of simply summarizing events, he provides readers with balanced, deep-dive commentary into why the internet reacts the way it does. In addition to his cultural reporting, he is an experienced fine art photography essayist and video game reviewer.

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