Woman Lost Her Pregnancy While Her Boyfriend Ignored Her Calls From The Hospital, But Now He’s Asking If He Could Look At Their Baby’s Sonogram Pictures
by Heide Lazaro

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Support matters most during life’s hardest moments.
The following story involves a woman who was in the hospital dealing with the loss of her baby.
She tried to call her boyfriend, but he just kept ignoring her.
A year later, he suddenly reached out, trying to reconcile.
Let’s take a closer look!
AITA for not allowing my ex to see sonogram photos of his child?
I (32F) dated my ex (33M) for two years.
During that time, our relationship was very difficult.
One weekend, he was mad at me because he thought a man was trying to flirt with me when we were at a store.
He refused to speak to me the entire weekend. We did not live together full time.
This woman found out she was pregnant and was losing the baby.
That Saturday, I found out I was expecting.
I also found out I was losing the pregnancy at the same time.
I tried to call him from the hospital. He ignored my call.
My best friend called him and he answered for her.
She told him what was going on. She lives out of state.
He and her then-boyfriend broke up.
He did not reach out to me. He did not come to the hospital.
I did not hear from him until the following Tuesday.
Needless to say, I never got over that.
We broke up shortly thereafter.
He never apologized. He said the “problem took care of itself.”
Now, he’s trying to reach out to look at the sonogram photo.
Now, a year later, he reached out.
He wants to see the sonogram photos.
He wants to talk to me about what happened at the hospital. I declined.
I told him that due to his actions that weekend, he did not deserve any further information or to see the photos.
He flipped out and called me every name in the book. So I must ask y’all, AITA?
Let’s find out what others have to say about this.
This user shares their personal thoughts.

He’s the problem, says this one.

Here’s a similar remark.

People are saying the same thing.

Finally, here’s a valid point.

You can’t magically forget the past and erase the hurt you’ve caused.
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