My first question after reading this story from Reddit was, “Why are these two even hanging out in the first place?

They are complete opposites, and she definitely doesn’t find these differences attractive. Should she give him a chance anyway, or is she right to refuse to date him?

Read on to get all the details below and see if you think she’s acting like a huge jerk!

AITA because I won’t date the 39 year old DoorDash delivery guy?

“26F.

I have my own full time career and can provide for myself, not a gold digger before anyone starts to make those comments.

But this guy’s lifestyle is a dealbreaker for me.

He’s honestly a super nice guy, handsome too.

She has a lot of issues with this fella…

But he is just lazy when it comes to working and is not financially stable and still lives with his parents.

He talks and talks all the time about improving his life but takes no action.

She had to tell him how she felt.

I told him why I can’t date him.

And of course he had an emotional temper tantrum and freaked out to try to make me feel bad about myself.

I just can’t build a life with someone who doesn’t have ambition and stability— all the responsibilities and pressure would be all on me.

AITA?”

That guy needs to back off!

And here’s what folks had to say on Reddit.

This person said she’s NTA.

Another individual shared their thoughts.

This Reddit user chimed in.

Another reader spoke up.

And one individual shared their thoughts.

I guess opposites DO NOT attract in this instance…

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