June 6, 2025 at 3:23 am

Her Friends Make Her Feel Weird, But She Doesn’t Want To Share Things That Go On Or In The Mouth

by Ashley Ashbee

Students eating together

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Young people do a lot of things that adults find weird.

Sometimes there are young people who think those things are weird, too.

Meet one of them in this story and offer them your judgement.

AITAH for not wanting to share my food?

I just think it’s gross that someone drinks from the same bottle or eats from the same fork as me.

I also really don’t like to share lip products or anything that touches someone else’s mouth.

She feels isolated in her opinion.

All the girls in my class don’t mind doing this and don’t think much of it.

So when someone asks for water or chapstick, I just say I don’t have anything with me.

I can’t be the only one, right? AITA?

Here is what people are talking about.

Beautifully put!

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She’s not alone.

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Setting boundaries is healthy.

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I don’t get why so many teens are entitled to what their friends have.

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Yikes! You don’t want that.

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This is pretty simple.

Friends don’t guilt trip or mock you.

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Ashley Ashbee | Contributing Writer, Workplace & Culture

Ashley Ashbee is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter specializing in workplace dynamics, employee advocacy, and professional culture. Drawing on her real-world experience as a software consultant, she brings a unique, insider perspective to navigating office conflicts, toxic management, and trending professional dilemmas.

Holding a degree in Professional Writing from York University, Ashley combines her formal editorial training with her corporate background to deliver highly engaging, empathetic narratives. She excels at breaking down complex workplace dramas and translating them into stories that truly empower and validate modern workers.

Based in St. Catharines, Ontario, Ashley balances her time between the tech and publishing worlds with her love for the outdoors. When she isn’t consulting or writing, she can usually be found exploring local walking trails or experimenting with new recipes in the kitchen.

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