Visiting your parents can be complicated and lots of things can make it dramatic.

It can sometimes be a whole thing, whether to stay with family or get a separate place for yourself.

See why this woman is uneasy about visiting her mom.

AITAH for getting a hotel for my weekend trip home with my boyfriend instead of staying with my mom?

I’m from LA but I moved to Atlanta 5 years ago.

I’m home a lot and I obviously always stay at home with my mom when I go home.

This will be the first time I’m bringing a boyfriend with me.

It’s not going to be easy.

My mom also has a boyfriend now, who lives with her.

My mom lives in a two bedroom apartment with one bathroom.

The lock on the bathroom door doesn’t work.

My boyfriend has a weird thing about pooping where people can hear him.

I figured it would be too crowded so I booked a hotel.

On top of that, when my mom’s boyfriend moved in, he brought his stuff and now the overflow of things are in my old room.

So, the pressure starts building.

Now her boyfriend will be out of town and she’s telling me to cancel the hotel and stay with her and I just don’t want to.

I think it will still be crowded and I want privacy.

On top of that she still hasn’t cleaned the room.

Granted, she has two weeks to clean it, but I just think the hotel is the better option.

She’s very offended that we’re not staying with her.

AITAH?

Here is what folks are saying.

Always! She sounds toxic.

Absolutely. Why can’t she see that.

If only it were that simple.

Yep. She made her own bed.

Definitely. I hate that she’s fixating on this.

Tempting, Mom, but no thank you.

Not this time.

If you liked that post, check out this story about a guy who was forced to sleep on the couch at his wife’s family’s house, so he went to a hotel instead.