September 7, 2026 at 8:35 am

Man Moves Into His First Apartment—Then the Family Upstairs Starts Waking Him Up Early Every Morning

by Heather Hall

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Apartment living usually comes with some noise, but that doesn’t make it any less frustrating when it starts too early in the morning.

For one man in his first apartment, the problem really started once the family upstairs came back from vacation.

Their two kids often run through the apartment, and the noise can start as early as 6:30 or 7 in the morning.

Since he works from home, he also hears the footsteps and creaking throughout the day.

Now, he’s wondering whether to say something or accept that this is just part of having upstairs neighbors.

Read on to see what you think.

Am I crazy for being tired of my upstairs neighbours? 😅

I moved into my first apartment in May, and honestly, finding a place was a bit difficult.

Since it was my first apartment, I didn’t have any rental references, and my credit was average, so I’m really grateful that my landlord was kind enough to give me a chance.

I live in a basement apartment, and my upstairs neighbours are a couple with two kids.

When he first moved in, things were great.

During the first two months I lived here, they were away on vacation, so I had pretty much no issues with noise. But since around mid-June/mid-July until now, I’m honestly starting to get really tired of it.

They have two children, and I completely understand that kids make noise. I’m not expecting them to sit quietly all day. But it feels like they walk extremely heavily, and the kids often run around the house. It’s especially bad on Saturday and Sunday mornings.

The problem is that my bedroom seems to be in a part of the apartment with really poor soundproofing. I can even hear their door creaking.

Unfortunately, he works from home, so there’s no escape for him.

Sometimes they’re up around 6:30 or 7 a.m., and on weekends, the running and noise start early. During the week, it doesn’t bother me as much because I wake up early too. But on weekends, sometimes I’d just like to sleep in without being woken up at 7 a.m. by people running around above me.

On top of that, I work from home, so I’m pretty much always here and hear everything throughout the day as well.

I’m honestly wondering what the next few months are going to be like. Will the kids eventually go to daycare or school, or are they going to continue being home all day?

Now, he’s not sure what to do.

I know it’s not really my business, and they obviously have every right to be in their own home, but I’m wondering because it means I could potentially be hearing noise all day while working from home.

Am I overreacting for being tired of it? Do you think it would be okay for me to politely say something to them, especially about the kids running around and the heavy noise early in the morning, or should I just accept that this is apartment living?

I really don’t want to be that annoying neighbour, especially since this is my first apartment, so I’m wondering if I’m just not used to having neighbours yet.

Yikes! That does sound brutal for him, but kids do run and play, so that’s hard.

Let’s see how the readers over at Reddit would approach the situation.

This person suggests headphones.

Soundproofing 3 Man Moves Into His First Apartment—Then the Family Upstairs Starts Waking Him Up Early Every Morning

According to this comment, he can try to ask.

Soundproofing 2 Man Moves Into His First Apartment—Then the Family Upstairs Starts Waking Him Up Early Every Morning

Here’s someone who can relate.

Soundproofing 1 Man Moves Into His First Apartment—Then the Family Upstairs Starts Waking Him Up Early Every Morning

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Soundproofing Man Moves Into His First Apartment—Then the Family Upstairs Starts Waking Him Up Early Every Morning

He probably shouldn’t make a big deal out of it just yet.

Kids are going to run around, and living below a family usually means dealing with more noise than you’d like.

Still, getting woken up early every weekend would wear on anyone after a while.

If it keeps happening, he can always bring it up politely and ask if they can keep the early morning noise down. But other than that, there’s not much he can do.

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Heather Hall | Contributing Writer, Life & Drama

Heather Hall is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter specializing in internet culture, workplace conflict, and viral customer service stories. With over a decade of editorial experience in digital publishing, Heather excels at curating trending online discussions and providing insightful commentary on the daily dramas that capture the internet's attention.

Since beginning her career in 2011, she has developed deep expertise in SEO-driven digital content, having written for a wide array of publications covering lifestyle, business, and travel. At TwistedSifter, Heather focuses on synthesizing complex social media threads into engaging, highly readable narratives that highlight the human element of viral news.

When she isn’t analyzing the latest internet discourse, Heather is a dedicated mother of three sons who takes family gaming nights entirely too seriously—whether she is dominating in Mario Kart, exploring The Legend of Zelda, or jumping into Roblox.

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