Not all customer interactions feel respectful or appropriate.

In this story, a woman works at a buffet and has a regular customer who constantly tells her to smile.

During one visit, the customer offered her money just to see her smile.

What seemed like a small comment started to feel more uncomfortable over time.

Do you agree? Let’s take a closer look!

A regular tells me to smile and now ties it to my tips

I work at a Chinese buffet, and there is this guy who comes in alone pretty often.

Every single time he comes in, he tells me to smile or asks why I am not smiling.

Today, I sat him and got him his drink.

As I was walking away, he loudly said, “Calm down.”

This woman was asked by a regular customer to smile.

Everyone in my section turned and looked. It was really embarrassing.

Then, toward the end of his meal, he waved me over.

He held out a $10 bill. He said, “Smile for me.”

I smiled because I did not know what else to do.

Though she smiled, it made her feel uncomfortable.

Honestly, it made me really uncomfortable and irritated.

I am there to do my job.

I am not there to be told how my face should look.

I am not rude. I am just focused.

Now, she’s wondering if she was overreacting.

It is starting to feel less like a harmless comment.

It feels more like he enjoys putting me on the spot.

I am just wondering if I am overreacting for feeling this annoyed and uncomfortable about it.

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Let’s read the responses of other people on Reddit to this story.

This user shares their personal thought.

Meanwhile, this person has a possible response.

It’s all about control, says this person.

Here’s an honest opinion from this person.

Finally, here’s another valid point.

A smile is not part of the menu.