May 29, 2025 at 8:22 pm

Younger Sister Wanted Glowing Skin Like Their Girlfriend’s, But When They Passed Along Her Routine It Sparked A Heated Debate Over Self Esteem

by Benjamin Cottrell

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Admiration is natural, especially when it comes to beauty routines that may or may not be too good to be true.

But when one girl took skincare inspiration from her sibling’s girlfriend, it led to an unexpected confrontation from their mother who was concerned about the message being sent to an impressionable young mind.

Read on for the full story!

AITA for giving my sister unrealistic expectations?

I (18) recently introduced my girlfriend (18) to my family.

My sister (13) asked me if I could ask her for her skincare routine; my girlfriend has this bright, glowing complexion.

So the girlfriend shared her routine and their younger sibling was eager to replicate it.

So I asked her, and she said she simply eats a kiwifruit every morning, with the high vitamin C boosting her collagen production.

That’s it. All she does.

My sister later asked her, and she confirmed it.

But not everyone was happy with these new developments.

My sister has been asking for kiwifruits, and when my mom asked and found out why, she was upset at me.

She pulled me aside and said that some people are “born lucky” with “all the right genes” and that my girlfriend might just be one of them.

She said my sister might experience self-image issues and disappointment.

AITA?

Who would have thought a seemingly innocent conversation could turn into such a heated debate?

What did Reddit make of all this?

Even if kiwifruit isn’t the miracle fruit it’s touted to be, it’s still a healthy choice, at least nutritionally.

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It’s only natural an 18-year-old and a parent would approach this situation in different ways.

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Genetics aside, a healthy lifestyle does pay off.

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One older Redditor offers advice on what’s worked for them.

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They were trying to be helpful, not hurtful.

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Benjamin Cottrell | Assistant Editor, Internet Culture

Benjamin Cottrell is an Assistant Editor and contributing writer at TwistedSifter, specializing in internet culture, viral social dynamics, and the moral complexities of online communities. He brings a highly analytical, editorial voice to his reporting on workplace conflicts, malicious compliance, and interpersonal drama, with a specific focus on nuanced stories that lack an obvious villain.

As a published author of rhetorical criticism, Benjamin leverages his academic background in human communication to dissect and elevate viral social media threads. Instead of simply summarizing events, he provides readers with balanced, deep-dive commentary into why the internet reacts the way it does. In addition to his cultural reporting, he is an experienced fine art photography essayist and video game reviewer.

When he isn’t analyzing the latest viral debates, Benjamin is usually chipping away at his extensive video game backlog, hunting down the best new restaurants, or out exploring the city with a camera in hand.

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