September 12, 2025 at 4:48 pm

A Doctor Talked About Why She Only Dates One Person At A Time. – ‘I show up as my best version of myself.’

by Matthew Gilligan

woman talking to tiktok viewers

TikTok/@dr.becky_

We hear so much about polyamory and open relationships these days, that it’s kind of surprising when a younger person says they’re interested in dating the old-fashioned way.

A doctor named Becky posted a video on TikTok and got real about her dating philosophy.

woman talking to tiktokkers

TikTok/@dr.becky_

Becky told viewers, “I don’t date like everyone else because I don’t love like everyone else.”

She added that she thinks Millennials and Gen Z folks have “dating all messed up.”

woman talking to a camera

TikTok/@dr.becky_

Becky continued, “When I’m seeing someone, I show up as my best version of myself. I’m true to myself. I’m honest.”

She added, “No matter how broken the dating world is today, you will never see me dating how everyone else dates.”

Becky then said, “If that’s how you want to date, that’s okay. But I want zero part in that. I truly believe you should date one person at a time.”

woman talking to tiktok viewers

TikTok/@dr.becky_

Check out the video.

@dr.becky_

I don’t date like everyone else because I don’t love like everyone else #dating #nyc

♬ original sound – Becky

And this is how viewers reacted on TikTok.

This person shared their thoughts.

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Another TikTok user spoke up.

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And this individual chimed in.

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She’s got old-fashioned values, and that’s a good thing!

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