Woman Calls Out Sister After Affair With Another Sister’s Boyfriend, but Family Wants an Apology From the Whistleblower
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Some family dramas will literally make you bite your nails!
This woman shares how her sister got into an affair with her other sister’s fiancé!
Check out how things spiraled out of control.
AITAH for calling my sister`s marriage result of an affair, when she accused me of being a cheater?
Hi, I am a 27(F). I am sorry to the readers because this is a long and complex post. Let me explain it in 3 points of context before the main argument:
She explains the main plot points of the story…
A. My country encourages arranged marriages, and so when my father’s cousin asked for my hand in marriage for his son, my father was very encouraging of the news.
He asked for my opinion, of course, and I told him that as long as I can develop compatibility with the boy, I don’t have any objection to marrying him.
The connection continued for 3 years and I literally talked ONCE to him where he used cheesy pick up lines on me and told me his father is sitting beside him reading our texts (a huge turn off), other than that, despite his family being a little less economically sound than us, his father would make backhanded remarks on us and always treat all the gifts given to them as rubbish and say condescending things.
She already knew it wouldn’t work out…
Which is why, eventually, I refused to marry him when asked for my final opinion. 2 years after the entire thing ended, I met Henry as a friend, and he is the best thing that can happen to me, so respectful to my family as well, and when he proposed, I said yes, now we are engaged.
B. We are five siblings, I am the middle child, my eldest sister is called Claire(30F), and my second eldest Sarah(28F). Claire moved away from our state to pursue her career and has a great job now, where she met Matt(28M).
Matt and Claire clicked immediately.
She explains how things worked out for her sister…
It started with friendship and blossomed into a relationship with Matt pursuing Claire while Claire was hesitant due to the age gap, but eventually agreed.
They dated with marriage in mind, and Matt was introduced to our family as her boyfriend. They would also take us on trips and hang out more as they treated all of us as kids.
C. Sarah was engaged to a Hudson, also related to my father’s side of the family. Sarah liked Hudson and was so happy when the proposal came, despite Hudson’s mother being against it. I know the dynamics are messy.
Mind you, Hudson’s family showed a lot of red flags due to the point of Hudson asking Sarah to be the main bread earner of the family and not expect anything from him, and he would also like a traditional wife, and even when his mother insulted Sarah, he took his mother’s side.
UH OH…
My mother asked Sarah to reconsider seeing her being so mistreated, but Sarah wouldn’t budge.
Claire and Matt took Sarah and our younger sister on a holiday last winter to a ski resort, I wasn’t able to go due to exams, and after that trip Matt started being actively in communication with Sarah which boiled down to Sarah subtly flirting with him, her reason being she wanted to TEST his loyalty to Claire and when Matt confessed feelings for Sarah, she told Claire everything with blame on Matt and asked her to breakup with him.
Of course, Claire was heartbroken, and eventually, with the insistence of Sarah, she broke up with Matt. Matt didn’t try to keep Claire.
That’s so messy!
2 months after their breakup, Sarah announced she had broken her engagement with Hudson, and asked all of us to block him.
We did try to understand the matter and also console Hudson when he would come wait at our home all day to talk to Sarah, while she ignored him or didn`t come home.
Eventually, Hudson gave up too, and just a month after her broken engagement, Sarah and Matt announced to all of us that they had gotten their marriage certificate at the courthouse, i.e., two days ago, and will be moving into our parents’ house the very day.
This was when everything came out: Sarah pursued Matt, and they had an affair behind Claire’s back before she decided to pretend to be hit on by Matt, which led to Claire and Matt’s breakup.
That’s INSANE!
She also strung along Hudson, but when she found Matt was more financially sound than Hudson (her own words), she decided to break the engagement.
Now they are married and demand that my parents vacate the entire upper portion of their house for Matt and her home, as Matt is still struggling, and our parents owe this much to her.
The entire thing led to Claire having a breakdown and my parents having a shock, as a court marriage is seen negatively in our community.
When they didn’t cater to her needs immediately she threw a fit and called my mother names including a S word, this of course angered me and I asked her to restrain back and watch what she is saying, she told that I shouldn’t tell her what is right when I am a cheater and lack moral character, everyone knows Henry didn’t even exist in my life until after 2 years of the entire thing, and being called a cheater hit closer to home as our father cheated on our mom and we all suffered from it, I know I might have overreacted but I called her marriage as a result of an affair stating entire chain of events and she can`t fool us.
Things got way too dramatic!
After which she started crying and shut herself in a room, saying that she is treated like crap in the family, and I should apologize to her.
My parents asked me to apologize to keep the peace, but I refused as she started it first, and I am done with her nonsense. My parents also got a little grim with me.
My younger siblings told me I might have gone too far, and I should apologize. I haven’t talked much to anyone else in my family for the last two days, and Sarah continues to play the victim.
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I feel wronged not only on my behalf but also on Claire’s, too, AITAH?
Should I apologize?
YIKES! That’s a lot of drama!
Why are the parents demanding her to apologize? She’s clearly done nothing wrong!
Let’s find out if users on Reddit agree.
Exactly! This user understands that everyone has the right to talk!
This suer suggests distancing from this toxic family.
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This user doesn’t understand how Sarah could be this mean!
This user thinks everyone is at fault in this story!
Somebody needs to take a break from their family!
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