Everyone wants their own special moment to be celebrated, especially on a milestone birthday.

So when one man watched his wife purposely steal her sister’s 30th birthday spotlight by announcing her third pregnancy, he couldn’t shake the feeling that she had just done something inexcusably icky.

Read on for the full story.

AITAH for telling my wife she’s a horrible person for announcing her pregnancy on her sisters birthday?

It happened a month ago, and she’s still upset at me for calling her out.

He recounts exactly what happens.

Basically, on her sister’s 30th birthday, she told everyone she’s pregnant with our third kid.

To a certain extent, he feels for his wife.

My wife does have a history of miscarriages and postpartum depression, and her excuse for announcing it early was to get more support. I fully get that.

But he still can’t excuse what she did.

But I told her I don’t understand what difference it makes if she announced it a day before or after her sister’s birthday.

We come from a big family, and the said sister has confided in us that she’s been nervous about it for a while.

This is why I feel like it was extra insensitive of my wife.

And her refusal to own up to it makes him even madder.

To this day, she still thinks she did nothing wrong, and I don’t know—it’s just really frustrating.

AITA?

Timing is everything, and this time, the timing couldn’t have been worse.

Reddit is sure to have some strong opinions on this one.

This user agrees that his wife made the wrong decision here.

Waiting just one SINGLE day would have made a world of difference in the outcome.

Doing it on a milestone birthday made matters even worse.

Is this even a good marriage to begin with?

The fact that she refuses to apologize for her mistake only makes things worse.

Some moments just aren’t meant to be shared.

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