April 26, 2026 at 3:47 am

They Were Best Friends For Years, But When The Two Girls Became Teenagers, Everything Changed Between Them

by Kyra Piperides

two girls making a promise

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Friendships as teenagers can be difficult to say the least.

As soon as hormones get involved, so come lots of intense feelings – and people who once seemed compatible friends can truly turn on one another.

It sucks and it hurts, but sometimes you have to move on and find better people to spend your time with.

As for the girl in this story? She took a different approach, with questionable consequences.

Read on to find out what happened.

Be a jerk, I steal your friends

I used to have a best female friend, and whether it was a edgy conversation or just drawing, we did everything together.

For five years we were best friends. To be clear we were pretty edgy teenagers.

Then the dreadful time came to find a secondary school: she went to a different one than I did, and naturally she found her new friend group and we did less stuff together.

Altogether we both changed in different ways, we still spent a little time walking to school together.

But then things started to change between them.

During the last year of my schooldays she was especially distanced from me. I don’t remember why, but she was barely talking to me.

We had lots of fights (like some teenagers do), but in the end it always turned back to friendship – until one day she straight up started ghosting me, making fun of me, and even spending time with my crush.

The straw that broke the camel’s back was when she (once again) ghosted me while hanging out with my crush guy and straight up telling him not to text me while they were hanging around.

I saw them on my way home. Back then I was a jealous mess, and that broke me.

Let’s see what she did in response.

She regularly told me that she had a crush on a certain guy. I knew him personally, he was a pretty chill dude and we talked sometimes. But I knew she was madly in love with him and I had his number, so I texted him.

We talked, A LOT. I spend a lot of time with him. And I enjoyed her envy look whenever she would see us both. So I started flirting with him too. And surprise surprise, he told me that he knew he was her crush but I seemed a bit more interesting.

We hung out bit more and we talked much more, even to the point of him sending ‘interesting’ pictures. I made it clear with body language and intentionally hugging him and stuff that she had no chance anymore.

Well I never had anything with that guy. I don’t talk to either of them. But I did enjoy her envy and angry looks.

Yikes. Sure this is teenagers, but some people are beyond petty.

It’s not even the two girls who seemed to take the natural decline of their friendship poorly so decided to be petty to one another in revenge.

Rather, it’s the poor boy who thought two girls liked him, was vulnerable in the face of her manipulation – and then it turned out to be just a game. Yuck.

Let’s see what the Reddit community made of this.

This person thought it was normal kid stuff.

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While this Redditor joked about taking the headline literally.

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Meanwhile, others were encouraging.

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Hopefully all the characters in this story have grown up and put this kind of behavior behind them.

Sometimes as teens we act in odd ways, because the small stuff seems huge.

Then, as we mature, we realise what really matters

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Kyra Piperides, PhD | Contributing Science Writer

Dr. Kyra Piperides is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter, specializing in Science & Discovery. Holding a PhD in English with a dedicated focus on the intersections of science, politics, and literature, she brings over 12 years of professional writing and editorial expertise to her reporting.

Kyra possesses a highly authoritative background in academic publishing, having served as the editor of an academic journal for three years. She is also the published author of two books and numerous research-driven articles. At TwistedSifter, she leverages her rigorous academic background to translate complex scientific concepts, global tech innovations, and environmental breakthroughs into highly engaging, accessible narratives for a mainstream audience.

Based in the UK, Kyra is an avid backpacker who spends her free time immersing herself in different cultures across distant shores—a passion that brings a rich, global perspective to her writing about Earth and nature.

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