She Discovered Her Boyfriend Was Tipping a Cute Waitress Huge Amounts and Sending Her Money on CashApp. He Says It’s Innocent
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When you are in a relationship with someone, you should not be keeping secrets or doing things that could hurt them.
What would you do if you found out that your boyfriend had been giving massive tips to one specific waitress at a bar he goes to with friends each week? And, to make it worse, you then found out that he had also sent her even more money via CashApp?
That is what happened to the woman in this story, and she feels like it is a betrayal even though he says it is innocent and only because she is a good waitress.
Personally, I would consider this a form of cheating. Read through the full story below and see if you agree.
AIO – partner has been sending money to another girl
My partner 32M and I 25F have been together for 5 years and have never had any serious unfaithful issues occur.
You can’t be too careful with situations like this.
However, the past month my partner has been getting close to a server at a local bar that he goes to weekly with coworkers.
We went out a couple weeks ago and he was intoxicated, spotted her and was hugging up all over her 28F .
Yeah, this is not appropriate.
There was a certain sparkle in his eyes that a girl can see- a type of look of infatuation. Apparently she’s a “really good server” and when he goes out with his coworkers, he will tip her over 60%-100%+ of the tab, typically being about $50-100 everytime he sees her (for like a $30 order).
I love that he every once in awhile he goes above and beyond- but this is every single time requesting this one girl every week.
This is absolutely a betrayal of trust.
Here’s where I felt hurt and I admit I invaded privacy. My gut instincts were have been TELLING me something is off, so I checked his phone when he wasn’t around and saw on cashapp that he has been sending her ADDITIONAL money.
About $200 the past month. Which really annoys me because he refused to download cashapp to send me money when needed, but now uses it multiple times to send her money.
I would consider this a form of cheating.
The fact that he decided to privately send her additional money is what hurts me and I feel this is a form of flirting/something more .
Of course, for him “it’s his money; he can do what he wants with it” and “she’s a really good server.”
Her feelings of betrayal are completely understandable.
We haven’t talked in the past day but I still haven’t confronted him specifically about it. I just told him I don’t want to talk right now.
I truly felt hurt with my findings and just feel odd, I don’t feel jealous necessarily.
Am I overreacting?
She is not overreacting in the least. If anything, I would say she is underreacting. Not only because he sent her the money at all, but also because he didn’t tell her about it.
Read on to see what the people in the comments thought about this story.
Whether the behavior has gone beyond sending money or not, it is inappropriate.
Here is a comment from a female server.
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This commenter says to leave him immediately. I agree.
He is showing her who the priority is.
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This person thinks the waitress is just flirting for the money.
There are many forms of cheating out there, and this is most certainly one of them. He is keeping secrets, sending money to another woman, and who knows what else.
This lady needs to end it now before it gets worse.
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