September 16, 2025 at 10:15 pm

Kids Came And Pet His Dog, But Then Their Mom Yelled At Him For Not Getting Her Permission First

by Ashley Ashbee

A German shorthaired pointer dog walking on a leash

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When you have a dog, you are going to have to deal with people who want to pet him or her, especially children.

Usually it’s peaceful, but not always.

Check out why this dog owner thinks that maybe she should have handled some kids better.

AITAH for letting a child pet my dog?

I was walking my dog in my neighborhood and we were getting close to a yard that had two kids, maybe elementary age in it.

My dog stopped to sniff a spot. One of the kids came over and asked if she could pet my dog.

It seemed like a casual interaction. Until the mom showed up.

I said she could.

Both kids started petting my dog. He likes kids, so he started licking their toes.

They thought was funny.

One kid asked what kind of dog he was, and I said he was a mutt. A woman came out of the house and yelled at the kids to go inside.

I started to leave, but she yelled at me and asked why I was talking to the kids.

I said they wanted to pet my dog.

The exchange between the women got more heated.

She replied I should have gotten her permission.

I said okay, in the future I won’t let those kids pet my dog. She said I shouldn’t let any kid pet my dog without the parent’s permission.

I said that if she doesn’t want her kid petting dogs she needs to tell her kid that, because it really isn’t my responsibility to enforce her rules for her.

Her comment emboldened the mom to take it further.

She said it’s a crime to talk to a stranger’s children. I told her to call the police then. She asked me which unit I lived in and I told her.

She said she was going to report me. I said she absolutely should do that.

Now that the moment has passed, I’m wondering if I don’t have a much moral high ground as I originally assumed.

Which of us was the jerk?

Here is what people are talking about.

LOL some people don’t know the difference.

Screenshot 2025 08 15 at 8.01.07 PM Kids Came And Pet His Dog, But Then Their Mom Yelled At Him For Not Getting Her Permission First

Yes! And teach them to ask before petting a dog and only doing it while she is there.

Screenshot 2025 08 15 at 8.01.22 PM Kids Came And Pet His Dog, But Then Their Mom Yelled At Him For Not Getting Her Permission First

True. You can’t change people like this.

Screenshot 2025 08 15 at 8.02.23 PM Kids Came And Pet His Dog, But Then Their Mom Yelled At Him For Not Getting Her Permission First

Good idea.

Screenshot 2025 08 15 at 8.03.13 PM Kids Came And Pet His Dog, But Then Their Mom Yelled At Him For Not Getting Her Permission First

I think she’d need more evidence than that.

Screenshot 2025 08 15 at 8.03.28 PM Kids Came And Pet His Dog, But Then Their Mom Yelled At Him For Not Getting Her Permission First

Imagine having a mom who acts like this.

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Ashley Ashbee | Contributing Writer, Workplace & Culture

Ashley Ashbee is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter specializing in workplace dynamics, employee advocacy, and professional culture. Drawing on her real-world experience as a software consultant, she brings a unique, insider perspective to navigating office conflicts, toxic management, and trending professional dilemmas.

Holding a degree in Professional Writing from York University, Ashley combines her formal editorial training with her corporate background to deliver highly engaging, empathetic narratives. She excels at breaking down complex workplace dramas and translating them into stories that truly empower and validate modern workers.

Based in St. Catharines, Ontario, Ashley balances her time between the tech and publishing worlds with her love for the outdoors. When she isn’t consulting or writing, she can usually be found exploring local walking trails or experimenting with new recipes in the kitchen.

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