Sometimes, the truth hurts… yet we still decide to tell it to the other person.

The following story is about a teen who learned that her dad wanted her twin sister to lose weight.

He told her not to tell her sister, but she decided to spill it to her anyway.

Now, tension and confrontations arise with everyone in the family.

Check out the full details below…

AITA for telling my sister something negative my father said about her?

I’m a teen and I have a twin sister.

There’s quite a bit of conflict in our family because my sister has always been on the defiant side.

A few days ago, my dad picked me up from school.

I had an extracurricular that day, so my sister was already home.

This teenage girl was picked up by her dad, who said something to her about her twin sister.

On the way, he started saying that if my sister wanted to get a boyfriend, she’d have to lose weight.

Now, in no way is my sister overweight or anything of the sort.

She looks larger but weighs an average weight for her height.

He went on this rant practically all the way home. I tried to discourage this idea but clearly failed.

She decided to tell it to her sister despite being told not to.

Upon arriving home, he said not to tell her. I felt very conflicted about this.

Cut to yesterday, I was waiting with my sister for our mother to pick us up.

I told her what he had said because it felt wrong for her not to know.

She was obviously upset from this news.

Now, her dad is mad at her for breaking his trust.

Later, I discovered she went and told our mother about this, too.

Our mother went and confronted our father.

Now, he’s mad at me because I told my sister what he said and broke his trust.

He believes he should have told her how he felt instead of me.

I still feel like a jerk for telling her. So, AITA?

Let’s read the responses of other people to this story.

This user shares their personal thoughts.

Here’s an honest thought from this person.

Your father is a red flag, says this one.

People are calling out the dad.

Finally, this one makes sense, too.

Not every secret deserves to be kept, especially when it affects someone you care about.

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