Bride Was Still Angry Over How Her Brother’s Girlfriend Behaved At The Wedding, So She Decided Not To Share Any Photos With Her
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Even tiny weddings can create huge drama when one guest keeps making everything about herself.
Should a bride share professional photos with someone who treated her wedding like a personal photo shoot?
Instead of enjoying the day quietly, one guest interrupted special moments, demanded pictures, and repeatedly pulled attention toward herself.
Check out the full wedding mess below.
WIBTA of if I didn’t give someone photos they requested?
So I (33F) just got married, and I never thought my tiny wedding would have drama.
We only had 7 people there (14 invited, but half didn’t come).
My husband even paid for his brother “T” (28M) and T’s girlfriend “B” (28F) to fly up since they couldn’t afford it, otherwise my husband would’ve had no family there.
Unfortunate, but a sad reality.
B isn’t related to us and this was only the 3rd time we’d met.
We already weren’t fans, but T wanted her there.
Fair enough.
After the ceremony, B asked our photographer to take solo shots of her and T.
I found it a bit rude but just rolled my eyes and brushed it off.
Still, she kept bringing up photos, asking my mom for photos she took and later messaging me for the photographer’s socials.
Doesn’t seem like B gets the day isn’t about her.
Throughout the day, she made other comments, one about choosing a plain dress so she wouldn’t upstage me, another loudly talking while my dad walked me down the aisle.
Our reception was casual, at an Airbnb a little more than an hour away from the ceremony in the mountains.
On the drive back, she loudly ate a pile of snacks.
At the Airbnb, she went straight to her room, stripped to her underwear, and walked right behind us in the middle of cake cutting then got in the hot tub.
Uh, she what?!
Saying she was hurting because of her fibromyalgia, we also gave her pain medicine on the drive back.
She barely touched the food we cooked (all gluten free since I have celiac) but later came out eating junk food after saying her stomach hurt from her fibromyalgia.
She also made a big Facebook post about how she pushed through her pain to be there for us, even though she spent most of the time away from everyone.
This sounds like a final straw moment.
She mostly smoked with T, and whenever T tried to talk with my husband, she’d interrupt and would pull him away for some random thing.
I also made custom embroidered gifts for family, and she loudly claimed she was keeping T’s, even though it wasn’t meant for her.
No one said anything because B is very sensitive and cries easily, but it felt like she cared more about attention & likes/comments than our wedding.
So WIBTA if I don’t share the wedding photos she asked the photographer to take of her?
Yikes sounds like a day to remember, but not in a good way. Let’s see what Redditors chimed in.
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Many offered good advice off the bat.
Some just brushed it off.
Others suggested to push off the problem.
Though a few offered a solid plan.
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And one person asked the million dollar question.
This bride paid for the photographer, so she gets to decide who receives the finished wedding photos.
Her guest’s health issues may explain some behavior, but they don’t excuse every rude comment, interruption, and grab for attention.
She wanted couple portraits but earned a permanent crop.
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