December 16, 2024 at 10:49 pm

‘Do I just donate it?’ – She’s Divorced And Concerned That Keeping Her Wedding Dress Is Bad Juju, So She Asks For Advice

by Ashley Ashbee

Source: TikTok/@aspynovard

It’s a question most brides probably ponder: What do you do with your wedding dress after your wedding?

The answer to this question probably depends on if you’re still married.

TikToker @aspynovard got divorced and felt “Maybe donating it will refresh the energy.”

Source: TikTok/@aspynovard

So Aspyn asked her TikTok viewers for advice.

“What are you supposed to do with your wedding dress,” she begins. “After you get divorced?”

She’s holding a garment bag in the shot and presumably her wedding dress is inside it. Is she keeping it handy, so she make a decision after reading her comments? Who knows.

Source: TikTok/@aspynovard

“Do I just donate it?” But then Aspyn answers her own question.

“Probably what I’ll do — I want to save it for my kids” she begins in her viral video. “But it probably has some bad juju attached to it.”

Juju is a French word for an item that has spiritual power.

Source: TikTok/@aspynovard

“Maybe if a random person wore it, it won’t have bad juju. I don’t know.”

It seems she may still have a lot of anger about her wedding, understandably. Fingers crossed she didn’t pay a ton of money for it.

Watch the full clip.

@aspynovard

maybe donating it will refresh the energy…

♬ original sound – Aspyn Ovard

Here is what people are saying.

We still have my mom’s. I don’t see us giving it away.

Source: TikTok/@aspynovard

People love to do that kind of stuff for social media.

Source: TikTok/@aspynovard

That’s so nice.

Source: TikTok/@aspynovard

Haha! Creative.

Source: TikTok/@aspynovard

I’ve heard about this. Some NICUs do it.

Source: TikTok/@aspynovard

So many choices!

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Ashley Ashbee | Contributing Writer, Workplace & Culture

Ashley Ashbee is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter specializing in workplace dynamics, employee advocacy, and professional culture. Drawing on her real-world experience as a software consultant, she brings a unique, insider perspective to navigating office conflicts, toxic management, and trending professional dilemmas.

Holding a degree in Professional Writing from York University, Ashley combines her formal editorial training with her corporate background to deliver highly engaging, empathetic narratives. She excels at breaking down complex workplace dramas and translating them into stories that truly empower and validate modern workers.

Based in St. Catharines, Ontario, Ashley balances her time between the tech and publishing worlds with her love for the outdoors. When she isn’t consulting or writing, she can usually be found exploring local walking trails or experimenting with new recipes in the kitchen.

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