April 16, 2025 at 11:15 am

His Girlfriend Was Grieving The Demise Of Her Ex-Boyfriend A Little Too Much, So He Assumed She Hasn’t Gotten Over Him

by Heide Lazaro

Woman looking at her cellphone and crying

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Learning that a person you once knew is gone can be devastating.

This man explains that his girlfriend cried a lot when she found out her ex died.

He was starting to think that she hadn’t moved on from him, and now, he’s feeling weird for having those thoughts.

Read the story below for all the details.

Girlfriends ex died and she’s really upset

My girlfriend and I have been together for 2 years.

She and her ex were together for 6 years.

We found out last week that his drinking had finally taken its toll, and he was in the hospital with liver failure.

This man’s girlfriend was devastated by the death of her ex.

He died this morning, and she is pretty devastated.

She says she’s fine, but is currently crying in the shower, and I can’t help but feel weird about it.

It’s like she hadn’t moved on or still has feelings for him.

He never liked her ex.

I never liked this guy.

Even in high school, he was a jerk, and he wasn’t great to my girlfriend or her daughter.

That being said, it’s sad he died at such a young age of 35.

He felt unsure of how to handle the situation.

I guess my question is, am I being awful for having these feelings?

Are they just my insecurities coming through?

Or do you think she wasn’t over this guy?

I’m not sure how to approach this with my girlfriend.

Should I just try to be supportive and help her through this at this point?

That’s a tough situation. She may have been over him, but death of someone you were close to for a long time can be hard to process no matter what.

Let’s check out the comments of other people on Reddit.

This person thinks he should be supportive.

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This person shares their honest opinion.

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Here’s another personal thought.

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This user shares a related experience.

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And finally, here’s a short and simple explanation.

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You don’t easily forget your former love, do you?

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