May 23, 2025 at 9:22 am

Boyfriend Secretly Records Girlfriend Under Anesthesia And Posts It Online, So The Girlfriend Considers Ending The Relationship

by Laura Ornella

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Sometimes, there are choices you can’t come back from.

What would you do if someone recorded you while you were under anesthesia and then posted it online? Would you think it was no big deal, or would you be furious?

Read how one Redditor’s trust was broken when their boyfriend secretly recorded them unconscious.

See the story below.

AITAH for considering breaking up with my boyfriend after he recorded me under anesthesia

My (21F) boyfriend (24M) recorded me without my consent.

On Monday, I went under anesthesia to get a boob lift to help with back pain.

My boyfriend came with me to support me, but I didn’t realize that he thought it would be funny to record me “sleeping” on the anesthesia and post it on Instagram.

While he deleted it, the woman still had to face repercussions.

He deleted it after I saw it and told him to.

I did not consent to having myself recorded and posted, especially considering my surgery was supposed to be private.

My wrapped up chest was visible in the video.

Some of his friends were asking if I was trans in the comments and making jokes. This really hurt me.

Now, this girlfriend wonders if she’d be better off moving on.

After this, I am considering breaking up with my immature boyfriend.

A part of me thinks this might be too far, but it’s the direction I think might be good for me.

I am scared of the new rumors going in his new friend group about me.

Is this girlfriend exaggerating or is she right on the money with her instinct to leave? See the comments below to find out more.

Redditors wholeheartedly supported her urge to end it.

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They questioned his morals.

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And they wondered whether he broke the law.

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One reader even suggested contacting the hospital to file a complaint.

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This boyfriend’s actions were horrendous — this woman needs to protect herself and move on.

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