They’ve been together for 9 months, but now her ex is suddenly back… with plane tickets and hotel reservations.

She admits the ex wants her back—she just thinks it’s worth the free trip.

Read on for the story.

AITA for not wanting my girlfriend to have a free holiday with her ex?

So I’ve been dating my current GF for about 9 months or so.

Her ex boyfriend that she broke up with about 6 months before we started dating has recently started talking to her again.

I don’t feel partially comfortable about this as I believe he wants to get back with her, but they have only seen each other a few times in a group setting so I haven’t seen it as a big deal up until this point.

Can we say sketchy?

Earlier today, she approached me saying that she needed to talk to me.

She explained that her Ex boyfriend was offering a holiday with her to ‘apologize for treating her badly in the past.’

He is offering to pay for the plane ticket hotels everything.

I talked with her and she agrees that she thinks he is trying to start something between them again but they will stay in separate rooms and a free holiday is an extremely good offer she doesn’t want to turn down.

Um. No.

I feel extremely mixed about this, I understand her wanting to go but it makes me extremely uncomfortable and upset, as well as feeling disrespected.

I am even contemplating ending things as it would make things easier for the both of us.

What do I do?

Most agreed—if she values a vacation over the relationship, let her pack single.

This person has a pretty funny suggestion.

This person says to just break it off now because his partner has no respect.

And this person agrees…just end it now.

Sure, the flights are free, but the red flags come at a cost.

This is pretty wacky.

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