Surprises are tricky, as they involve throwing expectations out the window and going with the flow.

Unfortunately it makes more drama possible.

See why this guy is in trouble with his friend after her wedding.

The details are definitely worth it.

AITA for wearing a wedding dress at a wedding?

My friend recently got engaged.

A week ago I got a dm from her for a small costume party she was hosting as a celebration.

I asked if there was a theme and she said there wasn’t.

I’m a cosplayer, so I had a lot of choices.

I didn’t want to rock up in an Anime cosplay, so I thought it would be funny to go to an engagement party as the Corpse Bride.

It didn’t achieve the effect she intended.

I arrived at her house yesterday and everything seemed normal.

A few people complemented my costume and I was having a lot of fun.

After ten minutes my friend’s fiancé walked out in a black tuxedo and announced this was actually their wedding.

Apparently my friend saw a video of someone doing this and wanted to do the same.

He asked us all to go to the back ard for the ceremony to begin.

I went straight to him.

I asked him if I should quickly go home and change my outfit and that I would get back before it started.

He told me it was fine since I didn’t know this was the wedding.

I trusted him and followed everyone outside.

They got married and everything seemed good.

The reception was just in their house again so everyone just walked back inside and picked up where they left off.

I tried talking to my friend and celebrating with her but she kept making excuses to not talk to me.

I assumed it was just because she was tried from the big day and wanted some alone time.

I didn’t bother her after that and the party soon ended.

I got home and half an hour passed when my phone started getting notifications.

I checked and it was my friend texting me.

She was cussing me out and telling me how I ruined her wedding.

I was really confused and asked what I did.

That only made her more angry.

Their wires were not just crossed, but tangled.

She told me it was basic knowledge not to wear a wedding dress to a wedding.

I reminded her I had no idea it was a wedding and that I asked her now husband if I should change and he said it was fine.

She didn’t respond, but I got a text from her husband.

He asked why I would tell her he said it was fine.

I told him he said it was fine.

Then he said how I should have changed anyways and it’s my fault that the two are now fighting over this.

I’ve tried texting her that I was sorry and if I had known I wouldn’t have done it.

I woke up today and saw her and her husband have blocked me on everything.

AITA for not changing out of the wedding dress when I found out it was actually a wedding?

Here is what people are talking about.

Haha they sound immature.

If you think you have to compete with a corpse, that’s your problem.

Haha. I agree.

Exactly. You can’t have everything, kids.

I think a lot of young adults want to make everything go viral.

I hope the cake was good at least.

And the bar was open.

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