June 21, 2025 at 4:23 pm

His Parents Tried To Force Him To Hand Over The Car He Bought To His Older Brother, And They Called Him Selfish For Saying No

by Heather Hall

Father having a serious conversation with his son

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Just because you live at home does not mean everything you own should be shared.

So, what would you do if your parents tried to give your car to your older brother because he needed a ride to work, even though you bought it with your own money?

Would you go along with the plan peacefully?

Or would you stand your ground and refuse to share your car?

In the following story, one brother faces this very decision and opts for the latter.

Here’s what happened.

AITA, my parents making me give my car to my older brother so he can go to work

The problem is that I (M19) also have to go to work, run errands, and hobbies I do on a daily basis that require the car that I paid for and bought myself with no one’s help.

I stressed that I need my car throughout the day.

There are other options.

My family has three cars: Dad’s – Lexus LX570, Mom’s- Toyota Rav4, and my car Honda Accord.

My mom takes the Rav4 to work, and my dad works from home, so the Lexus stays home.

A funny thing about my brother is that he isn’t the best driver, or rather, he has very little experience in his 21 years of life; I don’t trust him with my car, let alone the Lexus.

The Toyota is the only car he can drive other than my car, but my mom doesn’t like driving the Lexus to work because parking is tight where she works.

AITA?

Wow! It’s understandable why he’s so upset.

Let’s see how the folks over at Reddit feel about it.

Legally speaking, of course.

My Car His Parents Tried To Force Him To Hand Over The Car He Bought To His Older Brother, And They Called Him Selfish For Saying No

For this person, he’s learning a life lesson.

My Car 1 His Parents Tried To Force Him To Hand Over The Car He Bought To His Older Brother, And They Called Him Selfish For Saying No

As this reader points out, whatever happens becomes his problem.

My Car 2 His Parents Tried To Force Him To Hand Over The Car He Bought To His Older Brother, And They Called Him Selfish For Saying No

Apparently, the car is in the dad’s name.

My Car 3 His Parents Tried To Force Him To Hand Over The Car He Bought To His Older Brother, And They Called Him Selfish For Saying No

He should stand his ground.

There must be another solution that works for everyone.

If you liked that story, read this one about grandparents who set up a college fund for their grandkid because his parents won’t, but then his parents want to use the money to cover sibling’s medical expenses.

Heather Hall | Contributing Writer, Life & Drama

Heather Hall is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter specializing in internet culture, workplace conflict, and viral customer service stories. With over a decade of editorial experience in digital publishing, Heather excels at curating trending online discussions and providing insightful commentary on the daily dramas that capture the internet's attention.

Since beginning her career in 2011, she has developed deep expertise in SEO-driven digital content, having written for a wide array of publications covering lifestyle, business, and travel. At TwistedSifter, Heather focuses on synthesizing complex social media threads into engaging, highly readable narratives that highlight the human element of viral news.

When she isn’t analyzing the latest internet discourse, Heather is a dedicated mother of three sons who takes family gaming nights entirely too seriously—whether she is dominating in Mario Kart, exploring The Legend of Zelda, or jumping into Roblox.

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