Pregnancy is a miracle for some, but a problem for others.

If you didn’t want to have kids but accidentally got pregnant, would you want to throw a big party to celebrate, or would you rather keep the news low key?

This woman and her husband agreed not to have kids, because she didn’t want any.

But  when she accidentally got pregnant, her husband wanted a big celebration.

Read the story below for all the details.

AITAH for not wanting to celebrate my pregnancy

I (26F) have never really wanted kids.

I love kids, kids love me, but I don’t want my own.

I’ve had an experience in my past, and it has put me in a state of being absolutely mortified to have kids.

This woman got pregnant by mistake.

My husband (27M) knows about this, and he was fine not having kids.

But, I got pregnant by complete mistake 3 months ago.

She kept her pregnancy discreet.

I had weekly meltdowns, and it was a really horrible time for me.

I told one friend who said that I should be grateful I could have kids.

And so I kept the pregnancy super discreet.

I fear they wouldn’t understand my fears.

Her husband wanted big celebrations.

My husband completely switched up on the no kids idea.

That was after I told him I was pregnant.

He wanted massive parties, and a big gender reveal.

I told him numerous times that I was far from comfortable with that, and, if anything, I just want a small family celebration.

She had a miscarriage, but her husband still wanted a large gathering.

But, I had a miscarriage 2 months in.

After about a week, my husband started asking for something. He wanted to still have large get togethers or something to mourn our child.

I’m so opposed to that.

This is such a weird situation, I don’t know what to do.

It sounds like her husband would really like to be a dad after all.

Let’s read the reactions of other users to this story on Reddit.

You do you, says this user.

This person offers some honest advice.

Short and straightforward.

This user gives a fresh perspective.

And finally, most comments validate her feelings.

Some people cope with loss differently from others.

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