You lose a lot in a breakup: access to your partner’s stuff, relationships with their family, their cooking.

So do you have to lose even more than that?

See why this person might change her mind.

AITA for not changing my nickname after me and my ex broke up?

My ex and I recently broke up but we do still text on occasion.

Yesterday they texted me asking for me to remove the nickname that they gave me from all my social media profiles.

I asked why and they said because they didn’t want to see that nickname anymore.

And a spat was born.

I refused, I don’t entirely see the reason why and I’ve basically adopted that nickname for all my profiles.

They texted me again today, saying that I hadn’t removed it and I would need to in order to still have a friendship with them.

I don’t have such a friendly connection to my ex to want to do everything to keep the friendship so I refused again stating that we had broken up so why should they care?

They may be enemies now.

Looking back on it, my message feels a bit insensitive but I really liked the name and didn’t want to change it.

They blocked me immediately.

I don’t really feel in the wrong about this but I don’t know.

AITA?

Here is what people are saying.

Wise words.

Clearly a person with issues. Move on.

According to her ex, they are!

Bingo. I bet this is the reason.

I don’t think that’s the issue.

Get over it!

He needs to move on.

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