July 30, 2025 at 12:49 am

His Roommate Kept Stealing His Food Without Asking, So He Locked It All Up In A Private Fridge To Keep It Away From Him

by Benjamin Cottrell

groceries in a mini fridge

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Fairness and respect are essential for living with roommates, but as is seen often on the AITA subreddit, these qualities are quite hard to come by.

So when one renter noticed his roommate kept dipping into his groceries without asking, he found a simple but controversial way to make it stop.

Read on for the full story!

AITA for not sharing my groceries just because we live together?

I (31M) rent a flat with two other guys. We all agreed we’d buy our own groceries and label stuff.

But his roommate quickly began breaking these rules.

One of them keeps “accidentally” using my stuff—milk, eggs, even my coffee. He always says, “I’ll replace it,” but rarely does.

I stopped saying anything and just started moving my stuff into my room mini fridge.

So his roommate freaks out and starts shifting the blame.

Now he’s calling me petty and says I’m “killing the vibe.” But I’m not his parent.

AITA for being territorial about my food in a shared house?

Food theft is one of the quickest ways to create conflict among roommates.

What did Reddit have to say?

Deep down, this dude knows full well that what he’s doing is wrong.

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There’s a very big difference between roommates and living with your partner.

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This commenter thinks this renter has already taken a good first step.

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This user agrees it’s all on the selfish roommate for taking things that don’t belong to him.

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Sure, it may not have been the most subtle solution, but it sure was effective.

If standing up for himself “killed the vibe”, then maybe the vibe wasn’t good to begin with.

If you thought that was an interesting story, check out what happened when a family gave their in-laws a free place to stay in exchange for babysitting, but things changed when they don’t hold up their end of the bargain.

Benjamin Cottrell | Assistant Editor, Internet Culture

Benjamin Cottrell is an Assistant Editor and contributing writer at TwistedSifter, specializing in internet culture, viral social dynamics, and the moral complexities of online communities. He brings a highly analytical, editorial voice to his reporting on workplace conflicts, malicious compliance, and interpersonal drama, with a specific focus on nuanced stories that lack an obvious villain.

As a published author of rhetorical criticism, Benjamin leverages his academic background in human communication to dissect and elevate viral social media threads. Instead of simply summarizing events, he provides readers with balanced, deep-dive commentary into why the internet reacts the way it does. In addition to his cultural reporting, he is an experienced fine art photography essayist and video game reviewer.

When he isn’t analyzing the latest viral debates, Benjamin is usually chipping away at his extensive video game backlog, hunting down the best new restaurants, or out exploring the city with a camera in hand.

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