They say you can’t change your birthday, but that’s just quitter’s talk.

Even as a kid, one woman knew she was being shortchanged by having a gloomy winter birthday that was constantly overshadowed by the holidays. So she made a simple switch that suited her much better.

You’ll want to read on for this one!

i “changed” my birthday when i was 12 and i stand by it

My birthday is in the midst of the holiday season and let me tell you, it has SUCKED.

This is less-than optimal timing for many reasons.

It’s always the coldest week of the year in the South (USA), where nobody knows how to behave in such conditions. And everyone’s broke from the holidays.

And “this is for Christmas AND your birthday.” And New Year’s resolutions, so no one wants to touch the cake. And all of your friends being out of town. And you’re sick of your family from the holidays.

She knew from a young age that this just wouldn’t do, so she chose a new date.

I came to this epiphany when I was 12, and declared that my fate-ordained birthday was OFF that year and would be celebrated on March 6th.

Why March 6th specifically? Couldn’t tell you! I’d venture to say because it’s normally spring break and the weather is non-obtrusive.

Her family was worn down fairly easily.

My family was like… I mean, okay? Whatever, girl.

They didn’t realize the mechanics of my scheme. They didn’t realize that their little reheated Christmas tricks could no longer work.

And her plan worked like a charm!

And it was GREAT! I had an outdoor party! Everyone ate cake! I got presents!

You’re dang straight I honored it the next year. AND the next. And indefinitely for all of time, because forget January birthdays.

Very excited to celebrate my 18th on MARCH 6TH! People are more understanding than one might think.

I AM STILL A LOUD AND PROUD CAPRICORN, THOUGH.

Capricorns are known for being determined.

What did Reddit make of this amusing story?

A fellow winter-birthday-haver commiserates.

Late-January birthdays also have their downsides.

This family does things a little differently.

Still making-winter birthday kids feel special just takes a little effort.

In choosing to celebrate on her own terms, she transformed a frustrating time into the joyful tradition she deserved.

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