August 3, 2025 at 3:22 pm

They Refused To Lend Their Car Out For The Weekend, And Their Roommate Gave Them The Cold Shoulder Because Of It

by Benjamin Cottrell

man holding car keys

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It’s incredible how quickly a small disagreement can sour a roommate relationship.

Things were going fine with their roommate, but when he borderline demanded they lend him their car, the tone between them shifted.

Who overreacted here?

Read on for the full story.

AITA for refusing to lend my car to my roommate?

My roommate asked to borrow my car for the weekend to visit his family out of town.

I said no because I’ve had issues before with people not returning it with gas or on time.

Their roommate refused to take no for an answer.

He got upset and said I’m being selfish since he’s never asked for anything big before.

I told him I just don’t feel comfortable with it, and now he’s giving me the cold shoulder.

The two usually get along better than this.

We’ve lived together for two years and usually get along fine.

AITA for setting this boundary?

They’re not wrong for wanting to protect their things.

What did Reddit think?

This commenter thinks they should stay firm on their boundary.

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There’s just too much that can go wrong here.

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Lending out your car is an expensive risk to take.

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The roommate may not think it’s a big deal, but he couldn’t be more wrong.

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If their roommate can’t accept this boundary, then that’s his problem.

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Benjamin Cottrell | Assistant Editor, Internet Culture

Benjamin Cottrell is an Assistant Editor and contributing writer at TwistedSifter, specializing in internet culture, viral social dynamics, and the moral complexities of online communities. He brings a highly analytical, editorial voice to his reporting on workplace conflicts, malicious compliance, and interpersonal drama, with a specific focus on nuanced stories that lack an obvious villain.

As a published author of rhetorical criticism, Benjamin leverages his academic background in human communication to dissect and elevate viral social media threads. Instead of simply summarizing events, he provides readers with balanced, deep-dive commentary into why the internet reacts the way it does. In addition to his cultural reporting, he is an experienced fine art photography essayist and video game reviewer.

When he isn’t analyzing the latest viral debates, Benjamin is usually chipping away at his extensive video game backlog, hunting down the best new restaurants, or out exploring the city with a camera in hand.

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