Her Stepmom Treats Her Whole Family Terribly, So She Told Her She’ll Never Be A Grandmother To Her Future Kids
by Matthew Gilligan

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Talk about laying down the hammer!
The woman who wrote this story on Reddit’s “Am I the *******?” page put her stepmom in her place and she wants to know if she might’ve taken things too far.
Did she act like a jerk?
Read on and see what you think!
AITA for telling my dad’s wife she won’t be grandma to any future kids of mine?
“My dad (62) is married to Noelle (60). They met when I (24f) was 16 and got married when I was 21.
Noelle and I don’t get along and we won’t ever get along. The reason we don’t get along is she’s so aggressive for no reason.
She’s not a fan of this woman AT ALL.
Noelle fought with my grandparents the first time she joined in on a family vacation which was a year after her and dad started dating.
The fight was over where we were going to eat.
Noelle didn’t want to eat at the place that came with the vacation package my grandparents paid for.
Then she got angry when most of us wanted to eat there and wouldn’t go where she wanted and she took it out on my grandparents.
Nobody tried to stop her and dad from eating elsewhere but most of us didn’t want to spend a fortune going to a place outside the package we got.
She sounds like a lot of fun!
She didn’t want to do any of the paid for tours and got mad that my grandparents didn’t cancel them all.
When Noelle first moved in with my dad she started a weird fight with our neighbor over the neighbor’s dog watching her.
The neighbor said the dog was relaxing but Noelle didn’t buy it and she was so aggressive even when she asked the neighbor to make the dog stop looking that first time.
Noelle still calls that neighbor a ***** years later.
This woman is CRAZY.
We fought over my graduation. I didn’t want her there but dad did. I gave in for him.
She demanded me to invite her whole family and didn’t even ask. She demanded right away.
When I said no she stayed mad about it for weeks and argued with a bunch of people that whole time. Even at work she got a warning for the attitude she gave.
She picked a fight with my aunt at dad’s birthday 60th birthday dinner. My aunt bought dad an extra dessert and it offended Noelle.
She accused my aunt of trying to steal the limelight and asked her why she was so entitled, which I still don’t get how buying your brother a dessert on his birthday makes you entitled but anyway.
My aunt ignored her. But the aggression off Noelle was through the roof.
It’s not a secret that she doesn’t like her.
My dad knows I don’t like Noelle. He doesn’t push. We meet up for lunch, dinner, etc. He’ll visit me and I visit him when Noelle’s at work or visiting with someone.
He knows that when I get married some day Noelle won’t be anything more than his plus one and he should not expect her to be thanked for anything.
He also knows there is no way I’ll encourage my future kids to call her grandma. He’s accepted it.
I’ve accepted I don’t have as close of a relationship with dad as before because he’s married to Noelle and I want as little contact and exposure to her aggressive nature as possible.
We were all together for my uncle’s birthday on Saturday and Noelle started fighting with him. She didn’t like something he said about her favorite restaurant and just got so aggressive over it.
My uncle rolled his eyes at her and ignored her but she wouldn’t let it go.
Then he suggested she might need to be medicated because she gets aggressive a lot and he compared her to an angry yapping dog.
I laughed because I couldn’t have said it better myself.
Here it comes…
She told me that I should be defending her not laughing. She asked what I’d tell my future kids one day when they wondered why I let people speak to grandma that way.
That’s when I told her she won’t be grandma to any future kids of mine. I told her she’ll be grandpa’s wife they never see.
She blew a fuse and was removed. My dad stayed an apologized for her blowing up at the party. She’s decided we need to talk about what I said but I ignore her.
Every time she leaves a voice message or sends a text she tells me I don’t have the right to deny her and my future kids a relationship and saying I’ll be an awful mother.
AITA?”
Reddit users shared their thoughts.
This person said she’s NTA.

Another individual shared their thoughts.

This reader spoke up.

Another person chimed in.

And this Reddit user said she’s NTA.

It was finally time to put this evil stepmother in her place!
What a nightmare lady.
If you enjoyed that story, read this one about a mom who was forced to bring her three kids with her to apply for government benefits, but ended up getting the job of her dreams.
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