September 6, 2025 at 4:55 am

Musician Was Playing A Gig When A Woman Tried To Steal The Mic, And She Wouldn’t Take No For An Answer

by Ben Auxier

A man playing a gig at a bar patio

TikTok/aaronwevans

Did you know that some things are karaoke, and some things are NOT karaoke?

This is a lesson I think all my musician friends would love for the public to be more aware of.

Especially when they get gigs like this one, from TikTok user @aaronwevans:

A man playing a gig at a bar patio

TikTok/aaronwevans

“A woman came up to me mid-song and asked me to move up so she could sing into my microphone. You can see me clearly shake my head to tell her no. She proceeded to try and discreetly nudge me along to get in front of my mic.”

A man playing a gig at a bar patio

TikTok/aaronwevans

“She is currently leaning against my arm.”

A man playing a gig at a bar patio

TikTok/aaronwevans

“I have no choice but to shift over slightly.”

A man playing a gig at a bar patio

TikTok/aaronwevans

“She starts dancing, standing on my loopstation. I have £2000+ worth of equipment around me! Had this woman have tripped on a wire, I’m sure she would have blamed me!”

A man playing a gig at a bar patio

TikTok/aaronwevans

“This is one of the reasons I film all of my gigs. Please be respectful, and know the correct boundaries.”

@aaronwevans

Normalise not getting in a musicians personal space 🫣 . #music #musician #newmusic #musiciansoftiktok #soloartist #acoustic #acousticcovers #acousticguitar #pubmusician #gig #singer #localmusic #fyp #viralvideos #tik_tok

♬ original sound – AWE Music

There were some disagreements about how this should have been handled.
(The reply is the correct one, btw. I say this as a performer.)

Screenshot 1 d8ba42 Musician Was Playing A Gig When A Woman Tried To Steal The Mic, And She Wouldnt Take No For An Answer

Are you not aware of you?

Screenshot 2 147b41 Musician Was Playing A Gig When A Woman Tried To Steal The Mic, And She Wouldnt Take No For An Answer

Somebody come get her…

Screenshot 3 9be0f1 Musician Was Playing A Gig When A Woman Tried To Steal The Mic, And She Wouldnt Take No For An Answer

This has been a PSA.

Screenshot 4 e974b5 Musician Was Playing A Gig When A Woman Tried To Steal The Mic, And She Wouldnt Take No For An Answer

Friends don’t let friends do this crap.

If you liked that story, check out this video about a Dollar Store cashier who has had it with customers who argue over $4 products.