A mother’s love is irreplaceable, but what if you had a stepmom who was trying to replace your late mom?

Would you be willing to call the stepmom “mom,” or would you refuse?

This woman had sworn to herself that no one would replace her late mom, but then her stepmom recently asked to be called “mom.”

What should she do?

Check out the full story below.

AITAH for refusing to call my stepmom “Mom” even though she begged me to?

I moved in with my dad and his wife two years ago.

My mom passed when I was 12. It was sudden but I won’t get into that.

But since then, I’ve had this mental rule: no one replaces her. Not even close.

This woman’s stepmom has been trying to connect with her.

My stepmom? She’s okay. Like, she’s not evil or anything.

She cooks, she tries, she asks about my day sometimes.

But it’s always felt forced. It was like she’s ticking boxes from some parenting checklist.

Her stepmom wanted to be called “mom.”

Then last month, out of nowhere, she asked me to start calling her “Mom.”

I’m not even joking.

She sat me down like it was some big announcement. She was like, “I think it’s time we drop the ‘step’ and you call me Mom.”

She was shocked.

My stomach dropped.

I didn’t even know what to say.

I just froze and stared at her.

I wasn’t trying to be rude I was shocked.

She politely refused.

Then, I told her straight up:

“I can’t do that. I love my real mom. That word belongs to her.”

And she got quiet. Like, dead quiet.

So her stepmom cried to her dad.

Then later that night, she cried to my dad and said I “don’t accept her.” She said she’s “done everything to be part of my life.”

Now, things are tense.

She’s been cold and passive-aggressive.

Her dad and stepmom are pressuring her to give in.

She’ll say, “Oh, I guess Mom isn’t welcome here” when I walk in the kitchen, or she’ll ignore me completely.

My dad wants me to just say it to keep the peace. He actually said, “It’s just a word. Let her have it.”

She feels like she’s being emotionally blackmailed.

It’s not just a word to me, it holds memories I’m still not ready to let go of.

Now, I feel like I’m punishing her for wanting to connect, but I also feel like I’m being emotionally blackmailed.

They want me to give up something that’s not even theirs to take.

So I guess here it is… AITA?

“Mom” isn’t just a word, and her stepmom shouldn’t demand that title.

Let’s read the reactions of other Reddit users to this story.

This person gives their honest opinion.

Short and simple.

Call them by their first names, says this person.

This user shares their personal thoughts.

And lastly, people are siding with her.

The word “Mom” holds a lot of memories for most people.

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