It’s easy to say “it’s just a party” until someone’s feelings are on the line.

One woman found herself questioning her entire relationship when her fiancé refused to set boundaries with his friends before his bachelor trip.

It made her question whether she could really trust the man she was about to marry.

You’ll want to read on for the full story.

AITA for ruining my fiancé’s Bucks party?

My (37F) fiancé (35M) has his bucks party this weekend.

There will be 18 guys, including some friends flying in from interstate — mostly guys in their mid-30s, and some older like his dad and uncles.

There’s one big issue she can’t quite get past.

The main issue is about exotic dancers. I have expressly told him how much it makes me uncomfortable and that I would prefer for that not to be something that occurred.

Her fiancé doesn’t seem to care about her feelings.

He has essentially said that it’s out of his control and that he’s basically at the mercy of the guys organizing it. I think this response is pretty immature and basic.

His behavior is starting to make her question everything.

Anyhoo, with it fast approaching, it’s really giving me doubts about whether this is even someone I should be marrying if they would disregard my feelings like this.

She wonders just how involved she should get here.

I am wondering if I should contact the guys organizing the bucks directly and let them know that if they have private exotic dancers at the Airbnb, then I will seriously probably call off the wedding.

I can’t tell if I’m being too deep about this.

So, AITA?

Bachelor parties are meant to be wild, but they still have to be respectful to your partner.

What did Reddit think?

Her fiancé is showing some serious red flags here.

Her fiancé seems to forget that he’s the one calling the shots on his bachelor party.

The root feeling isn’t wrong, but if she goes about addressing it the wrong way, the scales could tip against her.

Maybe reconsidering the wedding isn’t the worst idea after all.

It’s funny how a few bad excuses can reveal what someone truly values in a relationship.

She needed a fiancé who would listen to her feelings, not just shrug them off.

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