March 10, 2026 at 5:23 pm

Man Politely Asked His Roommate To Stop Using His Things Without Asking, So Now They’ve Been Giving Him The Cold Shoulder

by Liberty Canlas

Man wearing headphones and eating snacks

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Most people know not to use other people’s things without asking for permission.

This man is living with a roommate who keeps using his stuff without asking. When he finally asked them to stop, they started to blame him for being dramatic.

Read the full story below.

AITA for telling my roommate they can’t use my stuff without asking?

I share an apartment with a roommate. Over the past few weeks, I noticed they’d been using my things, like my headphones, snacks, and some kitchen gadgets, without asking.

At first, I ignored it, but it kept happening.

Yesterday, I politely told them that they need to ask before using my things.

My roommate got upset and said I was “being dramatic” and “not a good roommate.” They’ve been giving me the cold shoulder ever since.

I feel like it’s normal to expect people to ask before using someone else’s belongings, but now I’m wondering if I overreacted.

This roommate needs a refresher on acceptable social behavior.

Let’s read what other people in the comments are saying about this.

Here’s a valid point.

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A fair assumption from this person.

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This one takes his side.

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This user shares some sensible advice.

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And this one offers some perspective.

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Respect roommate boundaries, keep the peace.

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Liberty Canlas | Contributing Writer, Lifestyle & Relationships

Liberty Canlas is a contributing writer for TwistedSifter specializing in relationship dynamics, social sciences, and modern family life. Leveraging her extensive professional background in scientific research and data analysis, Liberty brings a highly analytical yet empathetic approach to dissecting viral online conflicts and social media trends.

Rather than simply reporting on internet drama, Liberty uses her deep understanding of human cognition and behavior to explain why people react the way they do. She excels at transforming complex interpersonal debates into relatable, insightful commentary that helps readers better understand human interaction.

Outside of her editorial work, Liberty embraces a holistic, "semi-crunchy" lifestyle as a dedicated homeschooling mother. When she isn’t analyzing the latest trending relationship dilemma, she spends her time meticulously researching and planning her family’s next global travel adventure.

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