Everyone’s priorities are different, but some reasons can be slightly more valid than others.

What would you do if your partner bailed on a wedding you both already RSVP’d for? One girl recently shared her dilemma with Reddit.

Here’s what happened.

My partner’s ex is causing so much drama

Not my wedding, but wedding related drama.

My boyfriend (M39) and I (F26) have been dating for 5 years.

He has a 7 year old daughter.

That’s great that they make that setup work.

My friend is getting married in Italy this June, and we’re invited.

It’s a child-free wedding.

I’ve been saving up and counting down the days for this trip.

That sounds like an exciting time!

But last night, he told me his ex suddenly changed her mind and won’t switch custody weeks with him, meaning he’ll have his daughter during the wedding.

I asked why, and he said she just changed her mind.

Then she suggested that we pay for her and their daughter’s tickets and accommodations so she can come along and watch their daughter while we enjoy the wedding.

That’s a pretty bold suggestion.

I was upset.

That makes no sense.

Just switch the weeks and it’s all good.

Not sure that would hold up in court.

I don’t want his ex to go on a vacation with us.

My boyfriend’s solution?

Skip the wedding.

Typical man logic.

I told him no.

First, the RSVP date has already passed.

Second, I really want to go to this wedding and visit Italy.

All valid reasons.

So, I’m going.

He says it makes him uncomfortable if I go alone because it looks bad for me to show up solo.

I told him if it bothers him that much, then maybe he should figure something out with his ex so he can come too.

Hard to argue with that.

He says he’s tried everything, but she won’t budge, and he doesn’t want to feel like he’s abandoning his kid.

I’m frustrated.

What should I do at this point?

Sounds like an Eat, Pray, Love trip is necessary here. Let’s see how the good folks of Reddit weighed in.

The comments immediately pointed out the obvious.

Another person provided some tough love.

Some people didn’t mince words.

Though some encouragement was offered.

But all was well that ended well.

Maybe she’ll find a better date once she gets there alone.

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